if he sayin he can't help it cuz he horney or can't control hisself. how u get him to ease up on you during sex?
2006-09-12 03:10:53 · 8 answers · asked by smartsexycurvy 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
tell him seriously how much it bothers you... or just wait till there's a good time to talk to him and just talk to him about sex, ask him about what he likes what he dislikes, and share with him the same from your point of view. Maybe once he realizes it's not enjoyable for you he'll focus more on pleasing you.
2006-09-12 03:25:56 · answer #1 · answered by starsmoak 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that if he doesn't slow his roll and chill out with the ruff stuff, you're gonna stop givin him the good stuff. If he starts gettin rough during sex, just get out of the bed (or wherever you're gettin frisky) and leave him there with blue balls. A couple instances of this and he should get the picture. If that doesn't work, ditch the guy, because he's obviously not concerned that he's hurting you and not giving you any pleasure.
2006-09-12 03:22:14 · answer #2 · answered by j.f. 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tell him if he likes getting laid? To do as you say or you will find someone who will resepect you. But you won't cause you love him, an you will let him treat you like a dog cause he will leave you an you will be alone. So don't say a thing an learn to like it rough and he can start to slap you an beat you too. But you love him
2006-09-12 03:24:05 · answer #3 · answered by play dough 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get on top and take control.
2006-09-12 03:13:32 · answer #4 · answered by kw13815 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him ASAP.
Purify yourself sexually
Wait until your wedding night.
Get your freak back on - he will be perfect, not rough and he will rock your world better than your current "test drive."
He may get violent with you - I would lose him and pray that he doesn't flip out....
2006-09-12 04:01:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he can't respect you and ease up.....find someone who will.
He CAN control himself and if he says he can't....he's lying. He just WON'T.
2006-09-12 03:20:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You should not be having sex!
2006-09-12 03:43:04 · answer #7 · answered by thegreatone 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tellin him straight in the face? tts the best and strongest way to deal with guys. (me included?) Cuz if you dun say it a serious tone, guys won't take you seriously (duh =x) yup. =)
2006-09-12 03:15:33 · answer #8 · answered by yweouch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋