I was with this guy for many years, me and him had went through alot of things together. I dealt with him having multiple relationships even though he always came back to me. me and his baby's momma even had a run in or two. I bought him clothes, gave him money, etc. he lived with me and because he wasn't making much money on his job, i paid all the bills. When he got in trouble with the law, I was there when no one else was. He eventually moved out but we continued to sleep with each other, now I found out that he has met a girl he's only known for a year and has engaged her. THe nerve of the man. Everytime they get into it, he always runs back here and of course i let him in. Am I trying to prove something to him by sticking by his side. When I call him, he always talks nice to me but he lives with another woman, why keep coming back when she won't let him in? Do you all think he wants to really be with her or me? After all I did for him why wouldn't he want to marry me?
2006-09-12 02:55:16 · 9 answers · asked by stella 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Who would want to marry someone who would allow herself to be used the way YOU allowed yourself to be used. I think he wants to be with the other female, he just wants sex from you. The only way people can use/walk all over you is if you lie down and be a door mat. You are allowing him to scrape his shitty shoes on you on top of it.
2006-09-12 03:04:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey you need to kick this man out of your life.
He is using you.
You seem like you have a very BIG heart and really want this man to love you, but from everything you've described hes using you big time. He's taking advantage of how nice you are.
I hate to hurt your feelings but hes never going to marry you or want anything but a booty call.
You've let him run over you to long. Tell him next time he calls to go talk to his fiance because you have a date.
Get out and meet some new people you don't need this man he's only going to bring you down.
2006-09-12 03:01:50 · answer #2 · answered by bree30 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You only have yourself to blame, lady.
Aren't you encouraging him in his exploits? Everytime he's in trouble, you are his safety-net!
You know deep down within you that he doesn't love you at all.
Come on, have some self respect!
Do you need him? For everyone like him, there are hundreds of other better guys around.
2006-09-12 03:12:25 · answer #3 · answered by G.T. L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry but, NO dear if he wanted to be with you guess where he would be with you and not at her house with her... Take this as a lesson learned the hard way. GO find you a man that will respect you for you...Not just use you for what you can do.......!
2006-09-12 03:07:49 · answer #4 · answered by JACKIE M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he probably is just in love with you but at the same time in love with her too!! But don t keep letting him using you like that!
2006-09-12 03:24:14 · answer #5 · answered by memi_2hot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Darlin, don't be a sucker and get rid of this looser...he is playing with your emotions!!! And you deserve better!
2006-09-12 03:11:48 · answer #6 · answered by ang_172 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bun him or get rid the loser
2006-09-12 03:24:31 · answer #7 · answered by Jamaican Beauty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
drop that sucker imediately... you don't really need that kind of behaviour.
2006-09-12 03:00:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nah, let him go.
2006-09-12 02:58:26 · answer #9 · answered by teddybar67 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋