We've been seperated 2 months. She's still angry with me and says its still over yet she has showed some signs that there may be something still there. I've tried texting her to get her back but its failing. What do I do completely ignore her or send her flowers or what?
2006-09-12 02:52:16 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Has anybody got any ideas what will win her over? I thought of covering her house with flowers for a surprise but this is too expensive and cheesy. Something like off the milktray advert perhaps?
2006-09-12 03:03:46 · update #1
First of all..... STOP grovelling!! You are making yourself look desperate...... Back off for a while, and if she misses you, then she will come to you.... If not, then you will find out that the split was meant to be..
Good Luck!
2006-09-12 09:10:11 · answer #1 · answered by Katz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Number one she is not your ex if you are married and have not been divorced as yet. Separation is a time of many mixed emotions. Since I don't know what it is she has done that supposedly "show signs" that there may be something still there I can't comment. Do not send flowers, or candy for that matter, the two of you are separated for a reason. Just acknowledge her presence for the time being but don't do anything to make advances towards her. And I suggest seeing a lawyer, if you plan on divorcing.
2006-09-12 09:57:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok you've made an effort and shes still being off with you - Id send one last text saying - look I still care for you and I want you back, but it seems you're not interested - call me if you want me.
Send it - and leave it at that - she'll get the message that you're not willing to hang around forever for her. Chances are she's just stringing you along to make you pay for whatever it was ye broke up over, so with this kind of text she'll realise that its gone on long enough. if she DOESNT call you - you've lost her for good, accept it and move on
2006-09-12 09:55:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love someone set them free, if they come back to you they are yours forever, if they don't come back they were never yours to begin with!
Before I was married my husband left me several times! THe last time I said screw you and I wasn't coming back again, he was shocked because I always came back and this time I said no. I let go and shortly thereafter he proposed! Sometimes it takes something big to get them to realize that they love you. Mine didn't know what he had till it was gone, really one! So let her go, if it's meant to be she'll come back!
2006-09-12 09:59:56 · answer #4 · answered by faith 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
were you at fault (at least in part)? Do you want to get back together? if you answered both questions yes, then you owe her a SINCERE apology and tell her that you'd like to get back together.
If she did something wrong (even in part), she should SINCERELY apologize, and she should do it without prompting by you. If she doesn't apologize sincerely, then dump her *** and never ever look back.
2006-09-12 09:55:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let it go. sometimes that's just what u have to do in order to see some kind progress with this kind of situation. maybe she needs some time to think what she wants too.
2006-09-12 09:59:27 · answer #6 · answered by crazyoverhee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is she your X or are you just separated, there is a difference. Give her space and time and act on your sincere emotions!
2006-09-12 09:55:00 · answer #7 · answered by want2flybye 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you still care about her and want her back, let her know. If you are uninterested, don't lead her on, let her know you won't be getting back together if she pursues you.
2006-09-12 09:58:08 · answer #8 · answered by hello 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whos mistake it was that lead to seperation?? yours - then say sorry and tell her you would not do that ever. She is not your EX unless you really have left her......
2006-09-12 09:57:26 · answer #9 · answered by jk s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her some space and maybe she will think she is finally losing you........that's if she has any feeling's for you and she may call but for god sake don't frighten her off with bombarding her with text's and stuff
2006-09-12 10:03:43 · answer #10 · answered by brian m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋