2006-09-12 02:48:56 · 32 answers · asked by melissa d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
put your feelings aside for your ex. you've moved on with your life, and the last thing you need at the moment is to still have feelings for your ex. you should be concentrating on your present life and your future, your family, your friends, and others, but while you're married you cant continue to be thinking about your ex. i know it's hard to shut out your feelings for him, but it's the only thing you can do at this point.
2006-09-12 02:54:31 · answer #1 · answered by kristyb872001 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just remember that you have three beautiful kids and a wonderful loving husband and a good dad to your kids don't take that away from your kids.Its OK that you still have feelings for your ex but remember that's in the past now you have your husband to think about it would break his heart if you ever would to have an affair with your ex.Trust me don't do anything that would ruin your marriage.Good luck and i hope you can find happiness in your heart.
2006-09-12 03:48:12 · answer #2 · answered by ANNIE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The grass always looks greener on the other side. You've had to grow up and have responsibility so naturally the carefree lifestyle has some appeal. I suggest you get over the boyfriend -if you loved him so much why did you get married to your husband? Why did you have kids with your husband? Are you even thinking about your kids or your husband and how this can affect them? Damn!!
2006-09-12 02:55:00 · answer #3 · answered by MAK 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to work it out with your husband. Do nothing with your ex boyfriend while you are married. Remember you have three children too which will complicate any other relationship. If your husband is abusive, however, you should leave him.
2006-09-12 02:52:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you love your husband? Hes your ex now and you chose a different path just smile at your history and leave it right there - sometimes looking back or even going back on your future can do your head in . If it was that special he wouldnt be your ex.
2006-09-12 02:51:34 · answer #5 · answered by kinnoishere 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You made your choice so get over it. Anyhow you still love the idea of you ex not who he is now and what he does.
Or you could tell your kids that Mommy loves herself more than them and is going on a bottycall with her ex , so goodbye kids.
2006-09-12 03:00:21 · answer #6 · answered by John Q 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put all your effort into your marriage...it is as though u are being tested with your beliefs...now it is all in your hands, either go ahead and take a chance with 'at the moment excitement' , not knowing where that relationship will go, and break your family apart (misery)...or move on with the creation you've already started of a loving and 'trusting' family...it's all in your hands!
2006-09-12 02:59:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure it's your ex boyfriend your in love with or your life at the time? (Without kids, husband, all of that)
2006-09-12 02:51:33 · answer #8 · answered by to_sassy4_u 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about the ex boyfriend and get on with the life you have.
2006-09-12 02:50:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you ever loved your ex then you always will ... i still love my ex wife although i left her cos i cant stand the woman any longer
you need to ask yourself if anything were to happen with you and your ex ... is it worth losing your family if the answer is no then do nothing but enjoy the fact that you have an infatuation with someone you cant be with ... simple really
2006-09-12 02:52:32 · answer #10 · answered by Doc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋