Is it a warning sign when you dating a guy for 1.5months and he becomes irrational and totally rude(sceptical) when you dont answer the phone when he calls? - The 1st day he started calling me, the first time we spoke for about 10min then when he tried phoning me later that day my phone was off due to flat battery and he totally freaked out and told me to not make contact again...needless to say I forgave him but is this a warning sign? Is this normal?
2006-09-12 01:13:12 · 21 answers · asked by Ocean 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
sounds like he heas some mental issues
2006-09-12 01:15:54 · answer #1 · answered by imalickyouallover69 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Run! This is not normal it is an early warning sign. He will only get worst later on in the relationship. He must have trust & control issues. There are plenty of good men out there you don't need to put up with him.
2006-09-12 08:23:48 · answer #2 · answered by Maggie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
IT IS A WARNING SIGN!
becareful. u're probably all in lala land really liking him and giving him the benefit of doubt right about now. but he sounds very very possessive and if u leave this he would just become worse trying to control your life for every issues. Pretty soon u will realize you wont be allowed to even see your girlfriends or be free in whatever you want to do. It'll be alot harder to leave him then.
I went out with a guy who was a psycho , who used to write me "love letters" after small tiffs...in his blood. i had to stop seeing my friends so that my world revolved only around him, so many other things. But i like a fool kept forgiving, forgiving, forgiving then finally i couldn't take it anymore when one day he tells his brother to prank call me and because i answered the phone i proved "unfaithful" to him, so i told him to **** off. He REALLY threatened, attempted suicide,stalked, tortured me, gave me HELL for the next 3 months and finally had to issue a restraining order. so save yourself all this trouble and dump this guy fast. i think he would give you trouble even when you do it now but at least it wont be that severe.
2006-09-12 09:02:26 · answer #3 · answered by Liz^24 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he has some personal issues that he's taking out on you. Sounds like a warning sign for that, or something similar.
2006-09-12 08:16:59 · answer #4 · answered by camping_girl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of him. If he was dissapointed it would have been normal for someone in love. Rude and freaking out - get rid of him. You are right this is warning signs of worse to come.
2006-09-12 08:27:36 · answer #5 · answered by robsnor 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stella.........get out before things get really bad and you end up having to call the police and get Intervention Orders out to keep this nut sajob away from you. He is very much unbalanced. I went out with a guy that did the same thing and believe me, your better off getting out right now
2006-09-12 08:21:50 · answer #6 · answered by Linda 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to get out of this relationship. You have only been dating for 1.5 months and he is acting like that. Imagine when you have been together for 1 year what will he over re-act to then. I wouldn't take my chances on that. Move on with your life.
2006-09-12 08:23:31 · answer #7 · answered by Jewells 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is a red flag warning sign. It is not normal.
2006-09-12 08:19:40 · answer #8 · answered by greylady 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is a very controling person. It will only get worse.
2006-09-12 08:23:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's normal for a nutcase like him. Normal people do not do things like this. And it's really that simple.
2006-09-12 08:23:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋