I found out he has never stopped the contact with a woman I caught him with 4 years ago.
2006-09-12 00:16:12 · 27 answers · asked by Gill T 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
HECK YEAH! He's a liar and a cheat, he didn't mean the apology he said 4 years ago, once a cheat allways a cheat. Also "fool me once shame on you fool me twice shame on me" Don't let him make you a fool, you deserve better
2006-09-12 00:18:28 · answer #1 · answered by cyunos 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Did you ask him to stop contacting her four years ago? I know what you are going through and finding out is heartbreaking in the first place but to find this out is just another heartbreak. This shows he has no respect for you at all. Do you need him financially? If not get out. If you do then I suggest to start saving up money or take on more work to afford to be on your own. I do not know your situation at all just by the question you ask. Get some good friends or your church to support you emotinally and think about you.
2006-09-12 07:29:00 · answer #2 · answered by moonspawnhotmailcom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OUCH!!!! It all depends, why is he keeping contact with this person? Are they having an affair? If so, yes, because 4 years ago and he still wants to be with her. But..... I know some people are going to hate this one, but sometimes you find someone in life that you have a special bond with and doesn't mean that you are having an affair with that person. But in the end you have to follow your heart and do what's best for YOU.
2006-09-12 07:20:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well trust is important in a relationship and he sure stepped over his line by still seeing this woman. Why does he still want to see her? I have been married for 20 years and if my hubby chose another woman over me then so be it that would be what he would get. Good Luck!
2006-09-12 07:22:40 · answer #4 · answered by mistyredmom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel uncomfortable telling someone "yes, get a divorce", so I will simply say that's it is definately ultimatum time. Of course, if the ultimatum was laid down 4 years ago and this is his response, then I think you have my opinion.
2006-09-12 07:21:11 · answer #5 · answered by You'll Never Outfox the Fox 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a drag! There isn't much you can do other than except he has another woman, or leave. 23 years is a long time to be together.
2006-09-12 07:19:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are the only person in the world who knows the correct answer to this question.....it's a different situation every time. It may make you feel better to get the opinions of others, but ultimately you have to decide.
2006-09-12 07:18:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep, you divorce him. I told my husband 15 years ago that there are two things he will never get a chance to do twice, so he should not do it: one is hit me (he never has), two is cheat on me (he never has). He not only cheated on you, he severly disrespected you by continuing not to break up with her. He is outta here. Take him for everything.
2006-09-12 07:19:36 · answer #8 · answered by just browsin 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes , u suppose to be divorced 4 years ago
2006-09-12 07:18:45 · answer #9 · answered by cuttiiee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, too hard to forgive after all your sacrifice. You deserve so much better and the time to start is now. Free yourself from pain.
2006-09-12 07:51:45 · answer #10 · answered by TL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋