for this situation i am feeling very depressed because through day and nights i keep on thinking about her only and i also asked sorry and even gave a greeting card but still still she is not pardoning me.pleassssssse yahoo! u are the only thing on which i can depend on .pleassssse tell me some ways to make her out.
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anousha
2006-09-12 00:10:14 · 14 answers · asked by mera anusha 1 in Pets ➔ Other - Pets
hi anousha as u told u had a fight with (her) it can be ur mother ,sister or a freind who is very important to u. U did a right thing to say sorry to the person after the fight but still she has not come over the fact u had a fight with her...so all u can do is try to convince her by using ur love and affection that u will try ur maximum not to fight again and heart this person or just a card will nolt do ...just do something which she likes most like flowers ,cakes,chocolates,movie or something which will make her special as u said she is special so make her feel she is really special for u. Best of luck . Believe in u and god always.
2006-09-12 00:19:49 · answer #1 · answered by hotgy4999 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi there!!!!!
if u hv already tried given a card, which didn't work, then i'll advice u to try and explain in a more personal manner.Write SORRY on small chits and keep them near her. Make things which she likes, send messages saying u'll never do this again. after showing lots of such small gestures, then give her some time to think and then you call up or go and apologise face-to face, b'coz i feel talking directly changes the whole situation. Let her realise that you have done so much to get things back to normal and i'm sure she'll forgive u. And if still she doesn't forgive u, then she's not worth ur friendship.lol,tc.
2006-09-12 00:43:50 · answer #2 · answered by poorva_grover 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey anousha try this... make feel her special in front of her friends and always apologise and say sorry. She will definately forgive u. Try to be around with her and give her importance. Give a try it might work. And also talk to her in alone abt this. It wil surely solve the problem. All the best bye
2006-09-12 00:25:56 · answer #3 · answered by ahuja_sumit 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly if you have already said that you were sorry there really isn't much more to do. If she is a true friend she will come around, maybe she just needs time. It also depends on the depth of the fight. But if you were true and sincere when you said sorry then that's pretty much it.
2006-09-12 00:14:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
first think about what you done or said to her
if you where unfaithful then you will never ever get her back
as a women I couldn't ever take him back, as the old saying going if you done it onces you will do it again,
what ever you have done for her to leaves it must be bad for her not forgiveness you
love or being inlove with someone the key word is be opened and tell the truth about whatever this is the best way to hav a good relationship this is how I handle my relationship I am 52 yrs old and my husband is 32 yrs old we meet in 92 and it is 2006 now and how love is must stronger today by being this was
yes if they are rude to you! just look away! they will get the messages very quickly! I walk away ! thats hurt them more then being rude back, for you to get her back she must wont to come back to you! let her know how you feel let her know you really love her tell her you are in love with and you don't just love her
and then walk away! let her think about it fore awhile, if she feels the same for you she will come back to you
2006-09-12 00:25:01 · answer #5 · answered by amanda c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try writing her a letter... saying everything you feel...no matter how bad i may be... sometimes, greeting cards do not work ... its like giving someone a canned food, rather than offering your own cooked meal.. your specialty... another good thing in writing is that, everything can be expressed clearly, no holds bar... and the best part, she cannot stop you saying whatever you want to say... she will just keeps on reading..just be sincere though... woman feels the level of sincerity...best of luck!
2006-09-12 00:26:35 · answer #6 · answered by kymberlee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi ..tht is good tht u said sorry to her ..bt u have done ur part ..just give her time to adjust and give her some time to to ghather back ,,she must have been broken after ur fight ,,so be patient with her and support her ....and if u are ture friend just be with her ,,,and show how u care for her stilll and hoping all we be fine
2006-09-12 07:05:47 · answer #7 · answered by koni1975 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can see that you are hurting a lot.
If you have done your best to make amends and let her know this, there is little more you can do.
Giver her time to recover, and she will come back to you and forgive you in a little while.
In the meantime, do your best to be pleasant to everyone and enjoy little things so that you don't become bitter and unfriendly.
Good luck!
2006-09-12 00:16:13 · answer #8 · answered by nora22000 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
the fact that you asked for forgiveness is an excellent step towards reconciliation....you just have to wait, people differs when it comes to acceptance, some are too quick to forgive, while others are slow, it all boils down to how she was deeply hurt and perhaps she needs space for healing period
2006-09-12 00:22:55 · answer #9 · answered by sheikaella 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This question comes under other pets. Is she a pet? Then what kind of pet? If she is a cat give her fish. or if she is a dog give her bones, Why give greetings?
2006-09-15 06:44:31 · answer #10 · answered by Bharathi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋