u can't barely enjoy ur life because he's changing you...changing as in rebirth..he's changing you to a new one even he is still ur boyfriend..not yet married nor engage..he's putting to you the standards he wants to a girl....
2006-09-09 23:08:21 · 14 answers · asked by jO-An 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Ultimately the relationship will not last .. because you can not be you - the REAL YOU. Leave the relationship and find someone that will love you for who you are.. and not one that will give you standards you have to perform by
Hugs from a Loving Mom to a Brilliant, as well as beautiful 8 year old Jared and Our Angel, Zachary (taken to soon but who will always remain in our heart) ~ Mel
2006-09-09 23:11:15 · answer #1 · answered by jaredsmommy2004 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I just went through this. I thought that I had found the one that I wanted to be with, I was in love, I thought anyways. Then things started changing in the last month. I found myself not being happy anymore. Now I can see that I was changing things that I wanted in my life to make him happy. I realize now that to make myself happy I need to stick with what I want out of life. So do like I did and move on, there are other people in this world that will give you what you want from life, you will find someone that will share your dreams and respect you as much as you respect them.. Good luck. And try not to go back, the 1st few weeks are going to be hard because he is going to tell you that he is going to change and that things are going to be better, but the truth is you are better off without him in your life.
2006-09-09 23:49:52 · answer #2 · answered by vsecrets24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leaving is the easiest way to do !! it s like running away, i think you gotta talk to him first before takin' any action towards him and tell him that u need some time to think about this relationship all alone not with him. it may take a day or a week to reconsider your relationship then ask yourself a question like if you miss him and or u should give him a second chance if he is willing to change though. it s really easy to break up with someone but it aint easy to find someone better. after all it s your life and you gotta make your own decisions.... good luck
2006-09-09 23:31:43 · answer #3 · answered by ★HigHTƹcH★ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to love yourself enough to walk away from someone that doesn't accept you as you are. You don't have to change for him. There are plenty of guys out there to choose from, find a nice one that will respect you and make you happy.
2006-09-09 23:30:03 · answer #4 · answered by Kami 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try to communicate about the subject first. If there is no change then you have done all that you could be expected to do. I think I would leave if I expressed my unhappiness and he did nothing to change. good luck
2006-09-09 23:31:36 · answer #5 · answered by STEPHEEDEE 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's wrong he shouldn't change you and let you be you and if he don't like the real you then he needs to hit the road and find you a real man that's going to treat you good.
2006-09-10 00:41:54 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
learn to appreciate someone that love you. do you think hes happy with you? do you think you know the best and do you think you are so perfect? hes changing you? he just teach you to be a better person i guest. do you never complain anything to him? you will never be happy if you see the negative side. try to remember what he done to make you happy. dont easilly dump him. what will you feel if someday, your husband ask for a divorce while you are pregnant with this silly stupid reason. grow up and learn to think maturely. god be with you.
2006-09-09 23:22:53 · answer #7 · answered by Tiger Long 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
live each day as if it is your last.. make everyday a happy moment.. if you are not happy with what's happening, search for someone who can make you happy..
2006-09-09 23:12:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Simply move on.
2006-09-09 23:31:00 · answer #9 · answered by mad 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
break up..tats the best onei can come up with
2006-09-09 23:27:54 · answer #10 · answered by *Hearty Laugh* 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋