my friends pregnant through preasure she thinks she'll have an abortion what shall i do now the guy was 19!! coz i have to be the one thats always there for her i need t advice her to do whats right please help
2006-09-09 22:48:38 · 7 answers · asked by chelsi b 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
call the cops and be there for your friend
2006-09-12 11:13:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She should not get an abortion! She will regret it all of her life. She should put the baby up for adoption and know that her troubles led to something great for other people. She'll be their hero. My husband's mother was 15 when she gave him up for adoption and I just can't imagine the world without him! He saves lives every day as a surgical P.A. Was a decorated soldier for our military. He even resucitated a drowned girl at our local YMCA last January. Can you imagine if his mother had killed him?
I really think you should report the guy to the police. No mentally healthy 19 yr old is having sex with 13 yr olds! At the very least he needs help if not jail time!
Good Luck, you are a great friend to stick by her through this. Be a great friend by telling her the stuff she doesn't want to hear and sticking with her through her anger! Friends are always angry when you tell them the truth but they get over it if you were really being faithful to the relationship.
2006-09-10 05:55:31 · answer #2 · answered by psycho-cook 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What does her parents say. She a least better tell them. Suggest her having it full term and give it up for adoption. To tell you the truth my friend had a kid at the age of 15years old. Got a job and he paid child support and he raised the child. So i could work just something to think about. But i think abortion is a bad idea.
2006-09-12 12:27:14 · answer #3 · answered by Lori K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a father of 2 teenage girls I'm glad it has not happen to me, all I can say is it is very important to be there for her and comfort her and help her with any decision that she makes, weather you agree or not. A loving friend at this time is worth more than you can imagine. Good luck to both of you.
2006-09-10 06:03:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
she needs to talk to her mum or dad right away ,I know that's scary but if she waits it could be too late for an abortion,tell her not to worry about the man as he knew what he was doing.If her mum is not helpful go see a school councillor or a doctor NOW>
2006-09-10 06:26:57 · answer #5 · answered by stephanie n 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get an abortion. a 13 year old should not have a baby
2006-09-10 10:17:26 · answer #6 · answered by Emily 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be there for her. You should let her make the decision. It's her life.
2006-09-10 05:54:21 · answer #7 · answered by blood_hooks 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋