2006-09-09 22:47:43 · 8 answers · asked by wifelover 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Back off a little, your wife will be aware of your feelings, but the more you bang on about sex or lack of it the more she will find it hard to let go and enjoy sex...Some women (myself included) go through stages and sometimes although we love our partner just dont want sex..men think different..through my own experience i feel men think a good sex life = great relationship, while woman need a good relationship to have good sex...and remember foreplay can last all day, so compliment ur wife, praise her tell her she`s beautiful but let her make the first move sexually...good luck!
2006-09-09 23:00:10 · answer #1 · answered by dreamer 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am not sure what's confusing you, before you were married you had to win her heart and have her fall in love and want you, you just need to try to do what worked back then. It's incorrect to assume that once the ring is on that's all she will need to be attracted to you forever. It would be my guess that the stresses of kids, job, and the little annoying things that you do (some of which you may not realize you are doing) is what all adds up to her lack of interest in sex.
2006-09-10 05:55:44 · answer #2 · answered by live2ride 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you able to find out why she's not interested in sex? If you have been satisfying her in the past, she should be interested. Only by knowing the cause can you fix the problem. Email me personnally at: geokteck@gmail.com and I will help you solve your problem. I am sincere in trying to help you! No ill intentions here. Anyway, I believe I am too far away from you. I live in S E Asia
2006-09-10 06:12:32 · answer #3 · answered by G.T. L 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
find a counselor give you some suggestions, the sooner the better and the best is you too together. learn the courses about marriage.must have times to talk, be patient
2006-09-10 05:55:45 · answer #4 · answered by kaku j 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to find out why; hormones, overwhelmed w/ being working mother, etc. She should talk to her doctor to address possible physical problems and you could both consider counseling.
2006-09-10 05:54:12 · answer #5 · answered by mad 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i have the same question for myself i am a wife let me know what your answers are i really do like sex but i don't like to start what do you suggest
2006-09-10 05:50:37 · answer #6 · answered by jnstoner420 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That probably means that you are not sensitive to her needs any longer....or that you are a terrible lover. Either way spend more time on her - and she will want you again.
2006-09-10 06:18:32 · answer #7 · answered by doc 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe its age....ppl tend 2 4get about sex when a lot of time passes in marriage........talk it over.....dont worry,even if she wont do it,she loves u
2006-09-10 05:53:51 · answer #8 · answered by coolashluv 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋