Well, someone was rude to me and i feel depressed now. Maybe im too weak. Can anyone suggest ways to be mentally stronger and to withstand pain
2006-09-09 21:29:34 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Sports ➔ Football ➔ FIFA World Cup (TM)
well in this forum, i'm used to it by now.
In this forum u have to expect nasty words coming from nasty ppl, but u also need to know how to deal with it...
Listen, u shouldnt take anything to the heart, take it all as a bad joke.
When I first came here there was a Q about Zidane looking like a terrorist, I felt upset about it, but then I realised that nothing happens if u flow tears, so I decided to type words...And now I dont take it to the heart. Dont pay too much attention...
I had issues with a guy who repeatedly insulted the French and someone else who kept on asking nasty questions about me and starlight and someone else.
This world isnt perfect. If u can expect good, expect bad at times as well... :) Now smile :)
2006-09-09 23:42:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Just ignore them, anyone does it in football.
The other day someone said to me: "Stop ******* touching me..."
Maybe it's my 10 years of experience, but I just laughed.
People also laugh because our team is mostly composed of french-speaking players... Yah, for some reason they find that funny.
The most popular response is: "Yah, actually, I'm billingual so I'll hhave a great job while you'll be sitting in the dumpster.
It's not exactly true but still.
Never take these things seriously, everyone does it, don't react and let it go as soon as possible.
2006-09-10 05:15:30 · answer #2 · answered by No Name 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm a Holocaust survivor, reincarnated. Rude is something I ignore pretty easily
You can go through spending lots of energy praying for rude people, if theyre just being rude they probably only had a bad day. It's people who dont care if youre dead youve got to watch out for. My advice:try not to get hurt any worse than what you feel from rude people, if you can feel depressed and sad from it instead of angry youre not too far gone
2006-09-09 21:37:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
hm...why is this in the world cup section?
yes, i do feel hurt when someone is rude to me because i'm nice to everyone
it depends on whether the person is stranger or not
if he/she is someone i know, then ya it hurts a lot and i can never be friends again with someone like this
if that's a stranger, then usually i'd just ignore the person or tell the person off if he/she crosses the line
2006-09-09 21:37:52 · answer #4 · answered by Rock 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Feeling hurt is non productive. I feel annoyed and angry for a while and then get over it. You have to remember that if someone is rude, that's their problem, and by getting depressed you are making it yours. It's not worth it.
2006-09-09 21:37:38 · answer #5 · answered by scattergrl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best way is to completely ignore the person who was rude to you. Just think about all the things you have and he/she doesn't (like a brain)
2006-09-10 01:30:35 · answer #6 · answered by (^_^) 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Yes,for a few minutes.
I usually try to imagine what Jesus would have thought and done.
After that I usually feel sorry for that person and every thing is forgotten.
2006-09-09 21:41:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
in this section people are ALWAYS saying nasty things!!
my first Q in yahoo was "the worst possible name?" and people became pretty...expressive....don't take it personally, that's what i do...
if you're REALLY feeling depressed, become the president of a country and ban the meanies from yahoo!
2006-09-10 03:54:30 · answer #8 · answered by Rachael 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shoud become a bit more arrogant.
Not much, only a bit, so you would still be likeable by your surroundings, but invulnerable to insults.
And also, you have to learn to reply to these people, someone has to do soething about this, and sometimes you have to fight back.
Never insult them in replies, just tell them a logical, sensible comment on their rudeness.
2006-09-09 21:40:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymously Anonymous 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
omg, that happened to me. someone called me a moron, and i was all sad and depressed too. :/ it sucks. just be mean back or ignore what they say. :D haha, i dont know. :]
i know this has nothing to do with your question, but i know you love buffon so yeah.
look at these videos:
http://youtube.com/watch?v=GGm6GEA3nlM
i mean, ohmygoood, that accent! :]
http://youtube.com/watch?v=vKkVL5zph18
omg, his laugh is so cute!!
http://youtube.com/watch?v=TJX1vnwHZzE
hahahahaha, i like it when he's angry. ;D haha, what a cutie! :]
http://youtube.com/watch?v=9kZRT0m-_XI
omg, did you hear the lungs on buffon!! that boy can sing! :D
hahaha, i dont know why i gave you these videos. im not sure if youve seen them or not, but whatever. :]
2006-09-10 05:03:25 · answer #10 · answered by doober 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋