i am in love with a person..we both love each other for the past 4 years..now suddenly he had stopped talking with me...when i asked him y dint he talk with me..he gave me a silly answer that my father threatened him...but it is unbelivable....since my father never knew his number....then how is this possible?doesnt he like me?so is he trying to tell all these inorder to ignore me?is he in love with some other person?can i love him further?if so will this love end in a marriage?moreover i am an college student...i am doin my second year..i am good in my academics.....some one with proper solution please help me....no kidding answers..proper answers are alone welcomed.....
2006-09-09 21:19:25 · 13 answers · asked by coolgirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Hi, coolgirl
Well it seems that your in a situation in need of help and advise. Maybe something is either bothering him or he has something to hide. The best thing to do is sit with him and have a serious conversation, if he chooses to delay, then something is really wrong. Find out whats going on and take it from there. If its true about your father threatening him, then he needs to talk to you about it or at least work something out. I just hope that whatever happens......that it doesn't mess with your academics.
I hope I was helpful.....take care and good luck.
2006-09-09 21:30:16 · answer #1 · answered by cool_dude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first of all, have you asked your father is he threatened him?? It does sound like, for whatever reason, your boyfriend is trying to tell you something!!! But, after all this time, he should be man enough to tell you the truth about why he is acting this way!!
It really sounds as though you have your head on straight, so keep up the good work in your academics, and DON"T let this get you down!! Think of it this way-- you may be saving yourself from a world of heartbreak later down the road, if he is dishonest with you now!! Best of luck!!
2006-09-09 21:30:19 · answer #2 · answered by Betty T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say that, yeah, it is confusing that this boy would all of a sudden avoid you, but it seems common. I would say that one thing to consider is that a lot of people aren't comfortable with the commitment that being in love with someone means. Also, you are young. As you said, you have been doing very well with your academics, and I would just worry about continuing that. If you and this boy are meant to be, then he will come back and you will be happy. Who knows...you may even meet someone else and it may be fated the breakup between you and him, this is only going to make you stronger in the end if you let it. Grow from it, and work on your education, hopefully you'll meet a man along the way to treat you right :)
2006-09-09 21:25:26 · answer #3 · answered by iLoveHugs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come on people. Quit picking to on the poor girl. She's in love. That's all that should matter. First off you need to have a talk with your dad to verify the answer. If it were true, he should be able to give you an adult answer as to why he doesn't like you two together. If he didn't threaten him, then I would go back to your b/f and ask him to tell you the truth. It might hurt so be warned, you might get your heart broken, but there's plenty of other guys in the fishbowl :)
Chris
2006-09-09 21:28:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your father is overprotective, or if you can think of any thing about your bf that your parents wouldn't like then trust your boyfriend.
However, academics come first, depending on how high you want to take them. Don't let this, if you can, get in your way.
2006-09-09 21:23:51 · answer #5 · answered by Tall Guy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that may be he in love with some other person , but you can star another even though it feel not so good , be love in your marriage I t is longer and better.you are now in a college right , you have chances why not learn more and make more friends I think it is better now.
2006-09-09 22:26:46 · answer #6 · answered by kaku j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him straight up and if he is afraid of your father to deny you he dont love you(and im serious unless your father threatened to kill some one iono but in that case tell him to tell you the whole story and see if it makes snece because what could your father threaten him with thats so big to make him ignore you)
2006-09-09 21:26:17 · answer #7 · answered by duy n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HE might of found some one else 4 years can be along time for some people............ maybe you should hae tied the Knot sooner?
2006-09-09 21:23:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he in school?
You need to talk to him more about it.
Your Father to.
2006-09-09 21:37:39 · answer #9 · answered by elliebear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uhh.well, ur father cpuld possibly threaten him. ur father could get his number from another person. think.
2006-09-09 21:25:22 · answer #10 · answered by smashmouth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋