Why do people find it so hard to beleive that a man can wear womens clothes but not be gay? I just think they they are lots more comfortable. I dont have anything against gays , i just dont want to be called gay just because of my choose in clothes.
2006-09-09 20:49:09 · 19 answers · asked by jerry g 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
The only labels you should be worried about are the ones on your dresses. Why are you worried about what people call you?
2006-09-09 20:56:09 · answer #1 · answered by kiz_ma_az 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Most people with a light on up stairs knows that a transvestite is a person who likes the look and feel of clothing and appearance of the opposite sex and has nothing to do with their own sexuality.
A transsexual is a person who wants to be the opposite sex and has nothing to do with their sexual preferences or sexual desires toward others and is totally about who they feel they are physically.
And a Drag Queen is a gay male with the desire to be an entertainer by wearing women's clothes and being a person of style, class, and most importantly a person who can look good as a woman for the purpose of entertaining.
But not all gays fit into one of these nor does any straight person.People are who they are because that is who they are.I like being a man and looking like a man and I am gay.You like women's clothes and so forth and you're saying you're straight.Nothing wrong with that.
2006-09-10 05:27:03 · answer #2 · answered by BuckFush 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
And so what if your called gay, you know who and what you are. the choice of clothing or life style you choose should be no ones business but your own as long as you don't hurt anyone in the process. This is my thought on the subject.
2006-09-10 09:03:40 · answer #3 · answered by bernice195008 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Good for you. I've only known two crossdressers, one was straight, the other was bi. None of the gay guys I've known could be called crossdressers. Sure, some have crossdressed (including myself) but it was for fun, not for pleasure or comfort. Who gives a sh!t what other people think about your sexuality, you know the truth. That's all that matters.
2006-09-10 03:59:50 · answer #4 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's because most people are ignorant. They don't know that not all crossdressers are gay. Try to educate some of the people. I do all the time.
2006-09-10 08:40:20 · answer #5 · answered by carora13 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think we should all be allowed to wear whatever we want.
I would hate to have to wear girl clothes all the time.
I know a couple of cross dressers and neither of them are gay.
2006-09-10 03:52:42 · answer #6 · answered by fuzzylilhippiechick 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can wear what ever you want. I don't think cross dressing makes you gay. Look at Tim Curry in Rocky Horror. That was sexy.
2006-09-10 03:53:47 · answer #7 · answered by vampire_kitti 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont worry how they feel,just be comfortable with yourself.I think that there isnt anything wrong with being a crossdresser ,or being gay.peoplr will believe what they want so just keep on being as feminine as you want and if asked tell them the truth
2006-09-11 05:36:36 · answer #8 · answered by cindyxdresser 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not everyone believes it, some people are open minded about it and have nothing to do crossdressing or anything.
I think you're being just as bad by assuming everyone will think you're gay just for crossdressing.
2006-09-10 14:45:36 · answer #9 · answered by Adam G 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You just won't be called gay just as because of your choose in clothes but you may be called gay as because of the picture you have on your avatar.You should be more careful If you do not want to be called gay.....
2006-09-10 08:39:14 · answer #10 · answered by ozdemrr 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋