It was a long distance relationship for more than 15 yr, she is from Eurpe and I’m from Middleast, we had a short meeting last April, it was very nice time, she said about her self that she is old style girl, before leaving she asked if I’m in a relation with any girl, I told her no, and when I asked her, she told me that she is in one, but things not in the right direction, there are problems about religions and family, after two months I wrote to her telling her about my feeling, I love her, and told her that I respect her relation but I have to tell her about my feeling and I hope weather her feeling will not reflect our friendship, her answer was very short and simple, she said that she can’t reply as much as she would like to do, but she found what I wrote is nice, I don’t know why didn’t she just give me a direct answer, so I’m still confused, shall I try to go with this and how? or just stay as a friend, lately we had a misunderstanding and I asked her to stop communicating for
2006-09-09 20:43:45 · 4 answers · asked by abu_ali 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
there was a missing part in the original message,
After three days she wrote asking till when I’ll not communicating with her, now every thing is ok, but I’m still confused, don’t know what to do.
2006-09-09 21:29:17 · update #1
To me it sounds like she is just needing the emotional connection but not really wanting to pursue a relationship. Some people just seek attention and want it drawn to them but needless to say they can not pursue a real relationship.. for her it could be the fact that she is in a relationship. She may not be willing to leave the relationship she is in and its lacking that emotionally connection. I would strongly suggest to move forward in your life and find someone that can give you all that you deserve. Happiness and true love. I'm sorry you are in that situation .. emotional connection is very hard to break.
Hugs from a Loving Mom to a Brilliant, as well as beautiful 8 year old Jared and Our Angel, Zachary (taken to soon but who will always remain in our heart) ~ Mel
2006-09-09 23:35:53 · answer #1 · answered by jaredsmommy2004 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Abu Ali!
I'm really sorry 4 u!
maybe the reason behind this is that she could be more confused than u.
but for how long did u stop talking to each other? i mean if it's been for a long time i mean u shouldn't feel bad. coz if u stopped talking to some1 for a year everything between u will disappear.
plus u didn't explain small details.and to me it's hard to say what could that be!!!
i hope u can tell us more.
2006-09-10 04:03:51 · answer #2 · answered by Musty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she is still in the relationship w/the other person but she does love you but she can't tell you because of this other guy.
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