Well, I don't think sensuality is just something we do, but something we are. It's a whole body and life experience. I think that we have three aspects to our being, mind, heart (or spirit) and body. All three need to be engaged and and in balance.
In order to enhance sensuality I think ritual can help. Rituals like fasting before a sensual encounter (be it a special meal or sex or something else) can highten the experience through contrast and comparison... by heightening the tension and using anticipation to enhance the hunger.
Another way would be to either limit the use of special objects, like candles, to special occasions in order to maintain the uniqueness of the event. However, I don't recommend an otherwise ascetic lifestyle. Perhaps it is merely enough to reserve a special type or scent of candle for special occasions. An former lover once sent me a love letter upon which she had dripped a peach scented candle... and to this day that scent is special, yet I burn vanilla scented candles fairly frequently.
Basically, sensuality is about sensation. And the best way to increase sensation is to either increase the sensation or highten the ability to sense. Since human senses tend to detect, not the level of intensity, but the delta (change) in intensity, it is best to limit the sensation for hightened contrast. In other words, you need the valleys to appreciate the mountains.
2006-09-10 17:35:17
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answered by Wyld Stallyns 4
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There is nothing more sensually stimulating than taking a run, naked (shod and carrying a flashlight, of course), along a deserted country road in the middle of the night. Just you, the stars, the Moon, rustles in the bushes beside the road, drinking the sky; it's fabulous. It's the very essence of being human.
2006-09-09 20:45:32
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answered by bluepaint3 1
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rest. Wine, candles, and communication can advance my sensuality and positioned me in a zone. pampering my lover turns me on too. spoiling somebody else with bubble baths w/music and candles or in basic terms an trouble-free rubdown.
2016-12-12 05:45:31
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answered by ? 4
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i really don't do anything myself. the person that i'm with, i call her my Mistress and Owner has control over that, but some things she does or has me wear or act like sure does enhance me. so i guess in that way it must enhance me too.
heck i don't know.
2006-09-09 19:54:52
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answered by Anonymous
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I love wrapping myself in satin sheets
2006-09-09 20:08:54
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answered by ? 6
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Get in tune with your body and experiment with a partner.
2006-09-09 19:54:52
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answered by High? 6
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having in mind that it aint just piece of ***..... romance aint always the answer....flowers on da bed it sweet but common....surprises in the bedroom are nice maybe toys can help....oral....teasin a body can be torture but pleasurable
2006-09-09 19:56:25
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answered by 0o_fEmMeLiCoUs_o0 2
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take good food .Try vitahext or revital.it enhances sensuality. i ue it
2006-09-09 19:57:34
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answered by Anonymous
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Smells, lotions, feathers, music, and my own imagination.
2006-09-09 20:16:35
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answered by Evie 4
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Closing your eyes while someone touches you.
2006-09-09 19:54:19
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answered by Anonymous
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