I know what you mean. I know someone like that. Jealousy! Some people try to ruin other's lives because they are jealous of them. And then they act so nice to your face. I can't stand anyone like that and you can forgive them if you want (I never will) but, never trust them again. Be careful what you say to them. They will twist it around to their advantage. So - how do you forgive? Sorry but, I can't answer that right now because I'm not able to forgive a person myself.
2006-09-09 19:18:11
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answered by crazywoman88 4
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well you have to see what they tried to gained by doing that. did they? what is happening in there life that would make them act out in such a manor?
there are many factors to why people act the way they do.
I have forgiven a hypocrite before. but I have never really trusted them again.
you have to ask yourself one thing. is forgiveness something you would want bestowed upon you.
ultimately what goes around comes around. the whole Carma thing. I have seen Carma in action.
so do you forgive or not? only you can really make that choice.
2006-09-10 02:19:50
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answered by Marg N 4
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Well if you chose to forgive them that simply means you accept their faults and i can look past what tey've continously done.. and from there the decesion is yours to decide whether or not you can accept that side of teh individual
2006-09-10 02:14:48
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answered by Stupid Cupid 2
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why would u want to forgive someone like that? but if you really beleive they changed forgive and forget it will take some time
2006-09-10 02:30:54
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answered by sea 26 2
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you must try to forgive and forget but keep in mind that no one is forcing you to be friends with this person so just forget it and move on
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2006-09-10 02:14:49
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answered by absoluteao 3
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forgive and forget especially easy if they believe in thir change
2006-09-10 02:13:37
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answered by tony r 4
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I couldn't! forgiving such a person would be stupid, unless I know for sure he/she has changed.
2006-09-10 02:14:26
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answered by rinah 6
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If you want to forgive him, here is what somebody told me once.
DONT LET PETTY PEOPLE DRAG YOU DOWN TO THEIR LEVEL, BECAUSE THEY DONT DESERVE IT AND THEY R TOO GOOD TO BE BEATEN ,IN PETTINESS.
2006-09-10 02:18:45
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answered by illeteratii 2
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You dont forgive this person, why bother, stay away!!!
2006-09-10 02:14:33
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answered by snoopy 2
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somebody told me this a long time ago and its true--the best revenge is success
2006-09-10 02:13:52
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answered by darkangel1111 5
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