2006-09-09 19:08:52 · 27 answers · asked by lisa s 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
put Jesus in the equasion-without him as i answered in other of your questions u got not much future and about heaven ur both shoe ins for never ending torment in hell with gnashin teeth as the bible says-let alone the joy of salvation and a common bond of faith-and direction who to marry.
age is just a number its about the savior and the heart-without him u gotta worship something-that becomes ur
God and it will fail u and your relationship too eventually-there is pleasure in sin for a season then comes the problems.
2006-09-09 19:49:58 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a bit of an age gap, well, more than a bit, but they are both mature adults and people age at different rates. He might be a young 53 and fun to be around. I don't think age should matter in this case. 53 is not over the hill and at 32 one is long past being a kid and should know what they want.Where it might matter if they stay together is when she is 52 and he is 73. But for the present, who cares?
2006-09-09 19:14:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am 38 and my husband is 59. We have been very happily married for 10 years and have three great children aged 9 years, 7 years and 9 months. These are my husbands and my first children. People have judged our relationship but it works for us. We are who we are not a number. We share interests and goals and we have things that we do separately. We have times when we don't get along but these have nothing to do with our age difference but with a difference of opinion. People said that in twenty years the age difference would be more significant but ten years down the track things are better than ever. Also age is no guarantee as to who will pass away first. I nearly died three years ago, and my 39 year old sister died earlier this year. Enjoy your partner while they are there for you.
2006-09-09 19:54:27 · answer #3 · answered by acorn2oak47 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the compatibility. Common intrest go a long way between two people. Love has no restrictions or prejudice. Are they happy? Do they worry about what others might say? Can they be strong enough to make it through the good times and the bad in spite of what comes there way. Is it what they want or what others want for them? I say let them come to terms with each other and see where it goes. It won't be the first or last time this will have happened in the world.
2006-09-09 19:17:54 · answer #4 · answered by A Friend 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
A twenty one year age difference means your not just going through different life stages and you've had very different experiences, but you actually come from different eras... that's a tough one. I'm not saying it can't work but you would have to have an awful lot in common, and the woman would have to like being treated like a child, because I can tell you that's what will happen for the rest of thier lives together.
2006-09-09 19:27:09 · answer #5 · answered by mj_indigo 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ewwww.
Ok, I my last guy was really old, and Ewww. There's something wrong with old men who want younger women. I've hung around too many of them, and really, they're all sick b-tards.
My new rule of thumb is to stay withing the 7 years. I can date a man who's up to 5 years older and 2 years younger. Likewise, men should date women who are 2 years older than them, or 5 years younger. Out of this, and you get to see the circus stuff --- really the communication is just not there when you strech that far out into freakyness.
A 32 year old women who's married to a 53 year old man is waiting for him to die; GOLD-DIGGER. Or, she's got a fettish to be a nurse and watch a man suffer in death for her pleasure of the hatred of mankind. Anyway I slice it, there is psycho-ness on both sides.
2006-09-09 19:14:08 · answer #6 · answered by Giggly Giraffe 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I had a relationship when I was about that age with a man who was in his late forties. It was just fine. He treated me very well and I learned alot from him. Age is just a number (unless we're talking about minors!) Are you having trouble yourself with the age difference? Many people have had love affairs with people older/younger than themselves and find a real connection.
2006-09-09 19:29:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Who is anyone to judge? Everyone can say ewwww sick, gross, or GOLD DIGGER.
But think about this. How much of an age difference was there between your grandparent? great grandparents? Are they gross or gold diggers?
Love knows no numbers. However, there may be problems based on maturity, sexual drive/ability and in the future death... just things to think about.
2006-09-09 19:23:20 · answer #8 · answered by tonip1963 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I see nothing wrong with it.And the best part is that he has probably already gone through his mid-life crisis and is ready for a committed relationship.In short,at that age,he is probabaly a lot more mature than guys closer to your age.
2006-09-09 19:21:43 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
i think its ok but consider this....
men don't live as long as women generally
so the marriage may not be very long
but if it were the other way around then it would be better because u could hope for a longer marriage
2006-09-09 19:14:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋