So yesterday I went to a party with a bunch of friends and exboyfriend(DIDN'T WANT HIM TO GO).2 of my guy friends were flirting heavily with me,we got into a water fight,one threw ice down the front of my shirt,the other kept poking me,flirting,and touching me not at all inapproiately.Also on grabbed me around my waist usually I'm not that foward with guys and let them do stuff like that.wHy was my ex bf such a jerk all night after he got to see alot of this between me and my guy friends,I actually enjoyed throwing it in his face after the party I was at where he was all over some girl.These guys are really hot,ones a minor player.What do you think of the way these guys were acting ?wHy was my ex bf such a jerk.What do you think of the way these guys were acting?
2006-09-09 18:40:18 · 10 answers · asked by movin12006 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well, it seems to bug you that he was at a party and "was all over some girl," so it's hardly surprising that you letting guys grab and touch you bothered him. "Ex" doesn't magically erase any and all feelings you had for each other. Time does that.
The guys -- well, you say one is a "minor player." It's not uncommon for guys, or girls, to flirt outrageously with someone, kind of egging each other on. What one does leads another to escalate things - they're kind of showing off for each other, playing a game with you as the football. Harmless, so long as it doesn't go too far. At the point where you're uncomfortable, or wondering if it's going to far, it is. A guy who's really interested in you isn't doing it for show, or to entertain himself, and definitely not with his friends - the relationship is between him and you, if there's anything serious going on.
2006-09-09 18:46:04 · answer #1 · answered by peculiarpup 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most guys are like that when they party hold on to the memory but honestly don't hope for anything to come out of it besides a good night that left you feeling pretty special you will notice that, that's all really guys want when they are out partying. And girls for that fact they want to feel special and wanted, I know I do and I'm not gonna lie. Everyone wants attention and then later or when they are out with there friends they talk about the hot chick they were all over Saturday night for the most part it's harmless until rumor start. Your ex was just jealous, i would say rub it in his face every chance you get!!
2006-09-10 01:50:17 · answer #2 · answered by ~Bethany~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweet heart, if you think everything is cool, far be it from me to try and tell you any different.
Looks like you got him payed back for pawing some female. Just think, now it's his turn to pay you back. I bet your next date is going to be a real three ring circus.
Sounds like your dates are nothing short of punishment depending on who's turn it is to do the paying back.
The actions of your other male friends closely resemble the antics of adolescent chimpanzees in heat.
Just out of curiosity, do you know any normal guys? If not, a change of scenery would do you some good.
I started not to answer your question, but I can always use the 2 points.
Did not intend to be rude to you, just telling it like it is.
Darryl S.
2006-09-10 02:02:32 · answer #3 · answered by Stingray 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your ex boyfriend is still in love with you. But he's too much of a macho jerk to tell you how he feels. So, instead, he acts like a baby. Good thing you dumped the loser. If you want a real man write me.
2006-09-10 01:44:33 · answer #4 · answered by eugjoh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The way that those guys were acting are pretty immature. They probably just want a piece of your ***. They have no respect for themselves. As for your boyfriend, he probably still likes you and when he saw you with those guys, he probably got really jealous.
2006-09-10 01:43:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
most guys that respects girls...don't touch them that way...and you letting them, just told them..."that you might get lucky"...and as for your boy friend being pissed...i would be too , if my ex..was letting guys feel all over them...at a party....the stupidiest thing a girl can do is let a guy put something down her shirt...you just showed him what you were made of...he knows so i wont tell ya...
2006-09-10 01:55:25 · answer #6 · answered by Chocolate_Bunny 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your ex is still attractrd 2wards U. If you r too interested, then approach and have fun.
2006-09-10 01:59:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys were being guys, and your ex was being an ex.
2006-09-10 01:43:03 · answer #8 · answered by A Box of Signs 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
boyz atraction
2006-09-10 02:34:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because they like to do like that.
2006-09-10 01:43:20 · answer #10 · answered by prince47 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋