me and my friend used to be best friends and we did everything together since we were 10 and now were 17 and then she got a b/f and she changed and now shes always in a bad mood and shes just not the same and its been like that for a year do you think its time for me to let go? because ive been waiting and thinking that maybe she will change back to how she was but I dont think that will happen and im sick of waiting
2006-09-09 18:37:19 · 10 answers · asked by b 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I KNOW EXACTLY WHAT YOU ARE GOING THROUGH...ME AND MY BEST FRIEND HAS BEEN FRIENDS FOR YEARS AND WHEN SHE GOT A LITTLE OLDER AND GOT A BF SHE REALLY CHANGED...BUT I STARTED TO THINK MAYBE SHE WAS NEVER REALLY MY FRIEND TO BEGIN WITH...I THINK ITS TIME FOR YOU TO LET GO AND MOVE ON BECAUSE LIFE IS TOO SHORT TO WORRY ABOUT ONE PERSON
HOPE THIS HELPS,
GOOD LUCK
2006-09-09 19:21:27 · answer #1 · answered by goodgirl_101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As you grow old, your beliefs on some things change. You will come up with your own values in life and sometimes it'll be different from the people you've grown to be so close to. Your view of the world will be changed by your environment, experiences, and the people u meet along the way.
You can may move on - go on with what you have to do but make sure you always keep in touch with her, that is, if you would like her to be your best friend.
My only hope for you is that you and your best friend will still be friends although you have different points of view. B/c that's what being friends is all about. I mean, you may not agree on some things but u will still remain friends no matter what happens.
2006-09-09 18:52:09 · answer #2 · answered by Holly D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sadly this often happens when someone gets a boyfriend/girlfriend. The "best friend" is often pushed aside so that they can explore the new relationship. The reason she is in a bad mood is because she is trying to make herself be more unpleasent so that you won't want to be around her. For some reason, this is easier for her to do rather than just tell you that she would rather be alone with this boy. The best thing you can do, as her friend, is step aside and find other interests. You might also tell her she doesn't have to be like that to you, and to just call you when she is ready to hang out again.
Good luck
2006-09-09 18:43:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this like always happens.just call her on the phone or something and talk to her tell her you feel pushed aside and tell her your feelings...sorry to tell you this but if she doesn't understand shes not a good friend...
2006-09-09 19:24:12 · answer #4 · answered by Samantha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
“i'd choose to be the kind of buddy which you have been to me, i'd choose to be the help which you have been continually happy to be; i'd choose to intend as a lot to you each and every and each minute of the day, as you have meant previous buddy of mine, to me alongside the way.” “whether mean your existence is, meet it and stay it: do no longer shun it and get in touch with it stressful names. domesticate poverty like a backyard herb, like sage. do no longer worry your self a lot to get new issues, whether clothing or acquaintances. issues do no longer substitute, we alter. sell your clothing and shop your recommendations.” i'm no longer precisely constructive what you mean yet there are some costs.
2016-09-30 13:01:36 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just talk to her.and ask her wassup and its her life let it be and if your like really serious about ur guys old relationship then i hope you talk to her i can relate me and my best friend were Friends since kids and like 2-5 weeks ago we just became Friends and we talked about it why that happen and we forgave and we just still and act like we were still best Friends!
2006-09-09 18:40:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. If she really wants to be friends she'll be back
2006-09-09 18:40:51 · answer #7 · answered by Ironball 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a new friend...
2006-09-09 18:44:33 · answer #8 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then change ur friend
2006-09-09 18:39:56 · answer #9 · answered by anshulgupta1988 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girls want boyz nothing else
2006-09-09 19:31:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋