if he screw up would you still have love in ya heart or do you move on forget but you have a beautiful child how would you move on
2006-09-09 18:31:41 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Real love cant be turned on and off like a faucet.. it just doesnt work that way.. Someone you love can hurt u to ur very core but u still love them.. but u have to decide whats best fpor u.. being in love with someone so much that obviously doesnt love u enough not to hurt u like that? Is this someone u love enough to subject your children to a life time of hurt.. cause what affects the family affects them.. So although u can still love someone.. sometimes u need to love urself enough to know if he is worth putting u through the pain and ur family through the pain.. if he cant be the man u need him to be..
2006-09-09 18:59:20 · answer #1 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's how: He kept messing up, and kept saying he would change and then didn't, and after about six years of putting up with it, I divorced him. I still care about him. He still wants me back. But there's no way I'd take him back. It was hell being married to him. We get along fine now that we're apart. I'm not looking for another relationship. And yes, we do have a beautiful son together.
So, you can be apart, be friends, not have another relationship, and yet not "move on and forget." And you can still be close friends, and not be married, even if you start seeing someone else.
2006-09-10 01:38:49 · answer #2 · answered by Bad Kitty! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When there is a child involved it is a requirement. Otherwise, what reason would you have to perpetuate a relationship where not only is the love gone, but possibly replaced with very negative feelings.
2006-09-10 01:39:48 · answer #3 · answered by Iwant2know 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your question doesn't make sense. however from what i got of it, if he screwed up move on no matter what. Or else you will just prolong the inevitabel of it not working out. you can find someonelse. and if you have a child find someone better to help raise him/her. fathers are very expendable now a days.
2006-09-10 01:37:36 · answer #4 · answered by keeping it real 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant change the past so why mess the rest of your life up with a loser that dont mean to act like the chilsdren never was in my opion it is the children who get hurt on matters like this and have to live knowing that . my opion?
2006-09-10 01:54:19 · answer #5 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends whether u love him/her not. If it was me, it would be impossible to see him again. I guess i would be ready like 5 yrs after@
2006-09-10 01:36:09 · answer #6 · answered by liljinx17 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They r ex's for a reason.
2006-09-10 01:38:21 · answer #7 · answered by lol_des 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋