advantage of ? I use to be very secure with myself and now i'm not he is so consumned with his daughter that i'm last on his list. for example he use to buy me flowers and tell me that my boys are like his boys but in the same time he favors his daughter and it really hurts. I'v never been in a relationship were he could care less if i fell off the fface of the earth . Is it just my insecurity"s or shoould i start backing away?
2006-09-09 18:23:08 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I honestly think it’s all in your head due to insecurity. I received some signs from your question; like when you say that he favours his girl to your boys! This is just normal, natural and expected and I am sure you favour your own kids too.
It is also so normal that at the beginning of any relationship, people try to invest their time trying to impress the partner they’re after, while at later stages there are more important things than flowers, like mental, social, financial understanding…and I am sure both of you have to prepare your kids for the new step you’re about to make.
If he is a good guy try to keep him, but most importantly try to overcome the feelings you’re having because these can definitely ruin the relationship.
2006-09-09 18:31:03 · answer #1 · answered by rinah 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Id start backing away! I can understand his relationship w/his daughter, theres a bond. But I would wonder why he feels the way he does about you. If he loves you, and where you stand in your relationship. If he use to bring you flowers, and dont anymore, that would put tons of questions in my head. Especially if hes saying that he could care less if you fell off the face of the earth! sheesh!
2006-09-10 01:30:28 · answer #2 · answered by Tweetalette 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well of course his child comes first. But I would have to hear his side to give a real answer to this question.
2006-09-10 01:26:02 · answer #3 · answered by Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He loves his daughter and you love your kids. How much time and do you favor your kids over his daughter? Think about it.
2006-09-10 01:27:54 · answer #4 · answered by wishuponstarson 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT SOUND LIKE YOU NEED TO TALK TO HIM AND TELL HIM
HOW YOU FEEL ABOUT HOW HE TREATING YOU AND
YOUR BOYS, AND IF YOU FEEL THAT HE NOT TAKING
YOU SERIOUS THEN MAYBE YOU NEED TO START
BACKING AWAY. BUT DONT WAIT TO LONG THE LONGER
YOU WAIT THE HARDER IT WILL GET IN THE END.
2006-09-10 01:27:36 · answer #5 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you drunk typing....anyway yes you are very insecure and you should move on, and find a man who can give you his full attention...Good Luck
2006-09-10 01:25:47 · answer #6 · answered by Diamond in the Rough 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your feeling that bad,i hope you don't get married yet.Sit down and talk to him about it,if your sure he feels this way then,move on.
2006-09-10 01:27:11 · answer #7 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what?
2006-09-10 01:25:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋