2006-09-09 18:21:22 · 21 answers · asked by me-me 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
Just tell her that you do not appreciate the way she talks to you. I don't know the whole situation, but she does not seem like a best friend. A best friend would have more regard for your feelings. It is nice that you want to be the bigger person and not hurt her feelings, but sometimes you have to overlook that and tell it like it is.
Also, maybe venture out and meet some new people.
2006-09-09 18:30:13 · answer #1 · answered by Spiritoso 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her. Bring out that topic when there's a chance. She must know because it's also for her betterment; plus, she's might not aware of it because maybe it's just the way she is. Besides, she's your best friend right? It's better for her to know than keeping the hurt inside because you might let it out to her in a wrong or even bad way. I also have a friend like that and I alsways kept the hurt inside for so long; so one day, I had enough of her and burst out. We're still friends today but our feelings for each other have changed....
p.s. When yout tell tell it to her, be calm and try to say it in a friendly manner to prevent possible misunderstandings. Good luck girl! :)
2006-09-09 21:29:47 · answer #2 · answered by sheer♥black 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends -- how is she talking to you? You might be misinterpreting her tone, in which case you can tell her that you are picking up negative vibes from her and attribute it to your own perception and inquire whether she agrees or not, or if she is upset about anything. If she actually said a direct statement that was a jab at your ego, you need to be straightforward about it and list the reasons why you found it inappropriate and pinpoint specific aspects of it that you found unacceptable, she should apologize or at least give you some justification as to why she said that, and then you can settle your differences. If she is deliberately hurting you, though, you need to just be yourself while still being assertive and tackle the issue of her disrespect -- if she continues to create conflicts for you, you should reconsider her as a friend.
2006-09-09 18:27:45 · answer #3 · answered by Amy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First question for you is why is she your best friend?...Next question has she always talked to you like that or just recently?...when you answer those questions then you'll know if you need to be straightforward because she has always talked to you like that and you are getting tired of it, so the friendship is really not that true or she is going through a tough time and taking it out on you which is not considerate of her but then maybe you are the only one that will truly understand later why she was acting like that...GOOD LUCK!
2006-09-09 18:33:03 · answer #4 · answered by foxy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends in what way she is talking to you in order to decide not only how to tell her, but if you should worry about hurting her feelings. Is it obvious that she doesn't care about your feelings? If so, tell her the blatant truth. Or is she still a good friend who doesn't realize what she's putting you through? In this case handle it with more ease.
2006-09-09 18:30:04 · answer #5 · answered by khard 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had the same sort of friend. There is no way to tell her. I had to stop being her friend at least 12 times. She was really hard to get rid of. Now that She finally got the message we are no longer friends. I am much better off leading my life without her trying to control me. Her ex stepdad says she is miserable though but at least I don't suffer.
2006-09-09 18:29:04 · answer #6 · answered by charity2882 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what feelings are there to be hurt if she talks to you in a way you don't like for her to speak to you. OK, so you could try by a small laugh to go with this comment. Ahhhhhh come on, that is not a nice way to talk to me. That statement should not hurt her feelings.
2006-09-09 18:34:54 · answer #7 · answered by ttwobearsplusone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A slap across the face works every time. It will hurt her face, and you'll get your point across.
Seriously, if she's a real friend, you should be able to have a talk with her. Simply explain your point of view, she might not realize she's even doing it.
2006-09-09 18:26:45 · answer #8 · answered by biggie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is your best friend then you should be able to tell her everything, including that of her talking and hurting your feelings. Best friends talk about everything. Dont let this one slip away...
2006-09-09 18:27:52 · answer #9 · answered by nawnndawn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you don't care for the way she's been treating you or talking to you.
If she gets an attitude, tell her you have better things to do than waste your time with her.
Then dump her like a bad habit. You can do better in the way of friends.
2006-09-09 18:26:38 · answer #10 · answered by thatwench 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋