theres this man that i really like hes my age we have talked on the phon and i have been to his house a few times and yes we have had sex it was ok but i really do like him and would love ta have a relationship with him how do i go about letting him no this and im not sure he feels the same
2006-09-09 17:58:12 · 6 answers · asked by Jeannie T 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Just ASK HIM! As, I did with my fiancee! ASK ASK ASK! As I send gifts to his work, as he is my pooh bear, so sent him a stuff Pooh, with a balloon with I LIKE YOU on the balloon! He still has it, after six years!
I see it as, if I don't ask or tell a person what is on my mind, that I might loose the chance of maybe the man of my dreams. I now, have that man, and he is great with my son, and they are JUST like each other, it is scary! People think he is HIS father, which my 10 year old says he is, as he does all the things a father would do (My 10 year old's own words) and his Bio Father is just a friend.
But ask him, and LET US KNOW what he says! If he says YES, than you will be on top of the world, if he says no, well, there is another man out there that is worth all of YOU and he will be ONE lucky Man IN THE WORLD! Remember that, as if he says YES, tell him he is lucky to have you and that I told him that, now! lol! ((((Big Hugs)))) :-)
2006-09-11 13:30:31 · answer #1 · answered by Jersey Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, to me it seems like this man your friend doesn't want to have a serious relationship. Because if he felt the same way about you the way you do. He would of told you right from the start before he even jumped into bed with you. I'm sorry to say this but this guy seems like no strings attach relationship....
2006-09-10 01:13:07 · answer #2 · answered by Krissy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You gave up the goods and you don't know how to ask him to be in a relationship? I don't think he would want a relationship from you because he already got the good. A man likes a challenge and you wasn't one to him. Don't you think it would have come up by now? Good luck
2006-09-10 01:38:18 · answer #3 · answered by Apple 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to bring this up to him! You need to find out how he feels and let him know how you do. That way you know if you should give up or be a couple. Dont worry there is always other guys good luck!
2006-09-10 01:04:22 · answer #4 · answered by PinkHighHeels 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel and that you'd like a relationship with him. If he doesn't feel the same way, at least you then know and you can move on.
2006-09-10 01:02:07 · answer #5 · answered by sarah071267 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like your almost there. All you have to do is tell him
2006-09-10 01:01:36 · answer #6 · answered by snowteller 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋