THE GIRL IS ALSO PG BUT SHE IS ABOUT 6 MONTHS AND SHE HAS KNOW HIM FOR TEN YEARS BUT SHE HAS GIVEN HIM A SONOGRAM AND ON THE BACK IT SAYS "DAD LOOK ITS ME THE BABY LOVE US"
2006-09-09 17:51:13 · 30 answers · asked by Liliana V 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Sweetie, you are probably sad about this and it is probably stressing you out which is not good for you or your baby. The baby is the most important aspect right now. You should talk to him ASAP about this other woman and tell him to get it together or you won't be around. You should not have to go through this when pregnant. The girl that is calling and txting sounds a bit crazy but try not to get into altercations with her since both of you are pregnant, instead, handle your business with him because it's his fault, not yours or hers. I hope all works out, do what you have to do. Best of luck and you will be in my prayers!
2006-09-09 17:58:05 · answer #1 · answered by mama2be 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh the stinking nerve of a man! I would suggest you confront this girl and find out what this is all about. If my hubby was receiving phone calls and text from another girl, you better believe something is going to be said. Get to the bottom of it. He is obviously sleeping with this woman or she wouldn't be giving him a sonogram with that written on it. Good luck!
2006-09-09 18:45:06 · answer #2 · answered by sunshine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore the first person who answered, they're obviously an idiot.
Secondly, he's obviously not faithful, OR the girl is a total psycho. Ask the girl what's going on. Of course, she will tell you that your man is the father, so then ask her to prove it.
I would tell the guy that he'd better be straight up honest with you, because raisint the baby with you is going to be a hell of a lot easier than having to pay for it every month.
2006-09-09 17:56:35 · answer #3 · answered by Bachman-ette 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about it. Let him know how you feel and hopefully he'll be open and honest with you. He may be the Dad he may not. If they've known eachother for 10 years, it could just be a friendship also. I don't think there's anything wrong with them being friends as long as that's what it is. He could just be there for emotional support, 10 years is a long time to know somebody and continue a relationship with them whether romantical or friendly.
2006-09-09 17:54:22 · answer #4 · answered by melashell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hunn don't talk to that guy nor see him n sertanly keep your baby away from him he us a bad influence you should try n forget about him change your phone number your adress so they won't bother u the least u can u is worry your baby is going to feel all that be happy your going to resive the gift of life get ur self and your future baby a new start
2016-03-27 04:48:53 · answer #5 · answered by Susan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, well it depends on you , you are still in the 1 st trimester so you can still abort if that is something you believe in. If not then maybe you should really consider leaving him but do not prevent him from wanting to be there for the appts. and the birh. Afterwards make sure your baby gets everything it needs and leave him pennyless.
2006-09-09 18:58:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would raise hell. I'm going through the same thing right now. I have a boyfriend that says he cares so much about me but at the same time this crazy girl keeps calling him. She isn't pregnant or anything but she is crazy in love with him. She called me today trying to be all nice talking about "you want to go to the mall with me?" After she was just telling me he was over at her house and all this bullshit. I was like wow the last time you called me you were talking about killing me now you want me to go somewhere with you. But yeah today was the first time that he told her i was pregnant and boy did she flip out after that. But yeah i guess you just got to believe him, well that's what I'm doing at the moment.
2006-09-09 18:23:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you a teen? if she is pregnant with his child why should she not call him?! you did say baby's dad and not boyfriend or fiance or husband.i hope he has a good job. throw that h o a baby shower. whatever the situations u 2 have something in common. you have better things to worry about.
2006-09-09 18:38:16 · answer #8 · answered by SCHANEEKQUEAH GOTTI 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say your man has two women pregnant at one time move on and collect the child support you don't need him to raise the baby. set up visitation for him after the baby is born for the baby's sake not you and find a man worth your time.
2006-09-09 18:16:53 · answer #9 · answered by njredgrl32 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he the father of this baby also? If so this is not a good situation and you need to get things straight. If he can not be faithful and likes to sleep around not only is it wrong but unsafe to you and your unborn baby. I mean STD's ect. I think my dear its time for you guys to talk!
2006-09-09 17:53:57 · answer #10 · answered by Jamie D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋