WHAT SHOULD I DO MAYBE send HER ROSES AND A MUSHY CARD????i want that desire& fire back she had for me.
2006-09-09 17:50:17 · 14 answers · asked by JOE Z 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'm sorry but you should move on, shes trying to tell you in nicer way,she doesn't love you that way anymore
2006-09-09 17:52:43 · answer #1 · answered by jojo 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Usually that term means you're not sexually compatible or she heard it somewhere and thought it'd be cool to use it. It could just mean there is no passion. Just let her go if you love her. If she loves you she'll come back. You can lead a heart to love but you can't make it fall
2006-09-09 17:56:16 · answer #2 · answered by charity2882 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not really something you can "win" back. Just be yourself and things only YOU would do for HER. If she doesn't take you for who you are and falls in love with you then it's not the one you should be with. It hurts, but it's life. I'm going through something similar.
Best to you!
2006-09-09 17:53:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flowers and notes won't earn that for you. You have to ask yourself why she fell out of love with you. Whatever that's broken her spirit... is what needs to heal if she's ever going to feel like she used to.
Unfortunately, there's no quick answer to this. You need for her to tell you.
2006-09-09 17:53:35 · answer #4 · answered by VixenMom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might take time for her to gain interest again but do romantic things for her and don't stop. Even one you got her. Get her flowers, write her little letters telling her how much you appericate her and place them under her pillow or in other places.
Tell her she looks beautiful, smells good. Those are a few things that you could do. There is nothing wrong with being mushy. Its not really being mushy its showing her that you appericate her.
Women need to feel desired,loved and appericated. That is how you keep them from losing interest.
2006-09-09 17:55:50 · answer #5 · answered by Blah Blah Blah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on individual. but as far as i know, when a woman heart is hardened it is tough to get her back, but one thing i know however even if she is determine to break off with u, she will still give u chances of wanting to be friend. but most guys wouldn't accept that, and that's the end of it. so meanwhile u got to know why she is turning away from u and start remedy and move on with life. when u r sure that u can convince urself that u have changed for the better than u go forward to her. meanwhile treat her as a normal friend. the harder u push, end of story too.
2006-09-09 17:56:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
People try to fake things sooo often. When you truely have a change of heart, she will know. The sooner you listen to her wants, then think about what you could do to fix hings, and keep them that way the better. A lot of the time sorry, roses, and chocholates don't cut it, especially if the bad behavoir keeps repeating. Good luck.
2006-09-09 17:58:24 · answer #7 · answered by Country 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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If you are truly interested in winning her heart back, do little romantic things for her, send her flowers, send balloons, teddy bears, candy, etc. Send her cards expressing your love and respect for her. Do this from a distance, make her think about you again. Respect the distance though, write to her, and if she does open her heart to you again, don't take her for granted. sometimes we don't know what we have till we lose it. good luck.
2016-04-12 23:57:43 · answer #8 · answered by Joanne 4 · 28⤊ 0⤋
Darling, you can not recreate the past. Let her go, be confident in yourself. When she senses you are moving away she will either come running back or you are moving in a different direction. Using ploys like flowers and cards will get you in the wrong direction and make you appear desparate. Are you??? NO. Don't be.
2006-09-09 17:55:12 · answer #9 · answered by Marilyn C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its because you have changed and not doing the same things you did before when you first met. #1 send her flowers with a nice note #2 make her feel special, 3# ask how she is and ask what her needs are. for some reason men think they know what there spouses needs are w/o asking and they are usually wrong. needs meaning what will make her happy, and ask her what is lacking in your relationship.Ask yourself how were you different when she was most in love with you.
2006-09-09 18:22:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋