I'ts been 3 years since we break up and hav'nt seen each other! I'm still single and he has a girlfriend and they have a 9 months baby. I'ts just that he keeps calling me everyday without his girlfriend knowing that were still have communication. And finally just yesterday his girlfriend already know. I told him to stop calling me coz I don't want to break their relationship.. (well just for the sake of the baby) And his girlfriend don't want us to be friends. But he never listen to me. "Let's keep it a secret" that's what he said!! He's still pushing even though I said so many things that I know will hurt him so much. He still loves me.. the last thing he said with our argument....
2006-09-09 17:49:31 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you really wanted to end communication with him you would stop the calls yourself no one is forcing you to speak to him even to argue and by talking at all your giving him encouragement. If he wanted you so badly he wouldn't still be with her what the man wants is his cake and to eat it to that's where the "secret" comes in to play you sound to me like your to smart to fall for this count your blessings that it was her he knocked up and she is stuck with him and move on..
2006-09-09 17:56:09 · answer #1 · answered by Amy M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, you need to break that off. And I mean break that off completely. It sounds as though he's not happy with her, but still, you don't want to pull an Angelina Jolie and be the cause of the break up of a family. Especially because of the child. If at all possible, tell her that you no longer want it to continue. Let her know that you are trying to end it.
2006-09-09 17:54:16 · answer #2 · answered by elda_rae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he was never ready to be a father to begin with. You will have to cut it off and tell him to quit calling or that you are going to tell his girlfriend that he is calling. You will have to put your foot down, otherwise, he will feel encouraged to call. I would also stay away from him, because it sounds like he has responsibilty and emotional rebound issues. Good luck with it...
2006-09-09 17:54:25 · answer #3 · answered by Motochic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get away from him and right now!!! Progressively get stronger in your equest. Be nice buit keep getting more insistant- If that continues to fail- TELL him you will get the cops involved..Restraining order. VIP- Do not go back on your effort...Like go out with him even for one date...
2006-09-09 17:54:11 · answer #4 · answered by bart4play 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guy is a loser. He's two faced and a jerk. There is a good reason why he's your ex boyfriend and if you're smart you'll keep it that way
2006-09-09 17:53:50 · answer #5 · answered by david k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him in no uncertain terms that you no longer want to hear from him. He is cheating on his girlfriend with you (although it isn't physical) and if he will do it to her, he would certainly do it to you.
2006-09-09 17:52:16 · answer #6 · answered by sarah071267 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a piece of dogshit. He wants to pork you and his baby's momma. Ditch him and move on.
2006-09-09 17:53:16 · answer #7 · answered by sshazzam 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
told him to FLY KITE. sorry for using this word which really debase myself but he shouldn't do this to 2 women.
2006-09-09 18:05:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't answer when he calls he will get the message
2006-09-09 17:56:56 · answer #9 · answered by Mrs. M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DONT ANSWER THE PHONE< and maybe get a b/f leave it alone let it go
2006-09-09 17:55:11 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋