So the other day I was partying with my best friend Tinsley, at one of New Yorks hottist night clubs. So we were dancing and just hanging with a bunch of guys, and drinking and just being 16. So this is one of our usual clubs, but it felt that their were a lot more guys there than usual, and most of them were older and in college and go to NYU, one thing led to another and we left in their limo with them, so once we got to their little frat house thingy whatever, and then me and my friend ended up haveing a threesome with this one guy. Not like this was the first time this has ever happened but it seemed that this guy was all over my friend and didn't really care about me. How can I get guys attention???
2006-09-09 17:10:41 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Ummm don't share a guy with your friend. If you know that guys tend to like her better, why even try it? You are only 16 you shuldn't be doing these thigns anyway.
2006-09-09 17:13:26 · answer #1 · answered by mommysrock 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Honestly you should not be worrying about this stuff. 16 is pretty young to be out drinking and having multiple partners. Are you aware of all the diseases out there, like AIDS? Even if you use a rubber things can go completely wrong. You should be concentrating on school and there are many other things you could be doing to have fun. And college guys are way too old, all they really care about is sex, they don't actually care about you, all they want is to use you. I don't mean to sound like I am preaching, but it is very important to be careful. You didn't know these guys well but yet you went away with them? What if they raped you and your friend and then murdered you and left you lieing in a ditch somewhere? There are so many bad things out there, please be careful. It sounds like you are just being reckless or rebellious. It really isn't worth it.
2006-09-10 00:27:29 · answer #2 · answered by mystique133333 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not like that. When the right guy comes along, you will know. You're going to get yourself into a bunch of headaches and trouble doing things like that. You might think it's fun now, but it will catch up with you. One of these days you will feel guilty - that' s if you're still alive. Some of those college kids give that drug to knock girls out to have their way, and do they use protection? Probably not. It's not doing much for your reputation either. You can always start over with a clean slate - before it's too late. Those guys use girls like that then talk about them in front of everyone afterwards. And they don't talk nice, either. I know, I went to many parties at my son's frat in college.I' m glad I have all boys. What would your parents think? Your future husband wouldn't like it too much either.
2006-09-10 03:05:06 · answer #3 · answered by mabell1025 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, what are you doing having threesomes with guys you don't know that well anyways?
Sounds like you need to go clubbing by yourself and leave your friend at home so you can get all the action to yourself!
2006-09-10 00:14:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's obvious that this question was posted by a guy, just to see what answers he gets. I can read you like a book. The word "so" being used to reduce the age of the writer to 16 was pathetic too.
2006-09-10 00:39:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I just want to know how you got into a Club when you are only 16?
2006-09-10 00:48:11 · answer #6 · answered by fandj4ever 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
umm how are you 16 and in a popular night club??
and drinking too?
bottom line is YOU ARE TOO YOUNG.
start doing normal teen things and stop with these things that are way over your head anyway.
worry about prom zits and homework and not hangovers sex and threesomes.
2006-09-10 06:24:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Doing what your doing now is not the way to get attention. Its the wrong kind of attention first of all and my god you are only sixteen. You are doing things for all the wrong reasons sweetheart. You need to think more highly of yourself than that.
2006-09-10 00:14:54 · answer #8 · answered by LISA F 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
In a room full of tramps guys don't really care who they get they just want to get laid. You want to get a guy to like you how about liking yourself first. Quit putting yourself in this position I am sure you could do allot better for yourself
2006-09-10 00:17:59 · answer #9 · answered by lynx 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
ummmmm r u for real? dude are u trying to be a sl*t or what? ohhhhhh i see u wanna get HIV right,man whats wrong with this bitches now a days cant they be ust nice normal kids!!!! and let me tell u that what ur trying to do and be is called a "wh*re or sl*t........
2006-09-10 00:54:43 · answer #10 · answered by ~**~**~Cute♥ baby♥ girl~**~**~ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋