me n this guy were going out, we were VERY DEEP IN LOVE with each other, hes in the army, he got shot the first time he went to iraq n the doc told him that he was gonna die but he made it n survived then he came back n he got his ribs broken on some training n he was gonna go to iraq like in about a month so he wasnt totally recovered from the broken ribs n his sargent n doctors told him that if he was gonna go to iraq he wasnt gonna make it back here n he went crazy about it, he told me he wasnt gonna make n that he was gonna die that everybody knew it n that he didnt wanna be with me anymore cause he didnt wanted me to be waiting on him, i told him to be optimistic n that he should be going with a possitive attitude...so the date he was supposed to leave was canceled n the army gave them more time...so now he had like a 50/50 chance to comeback...a few days we broke up he started got a new gf i felt so sad n cry like crazy but know after 2 months he says he loves me
2006-09-09 16:58:25 · 13 answers · asked by Liz 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
he say he still loves me n wants to be with me n i still love him think about him n everything but i read a message on the internet saying that hes deeply in love with his knew gf n she loves him too but i dont know if i should go back with him or what?? i met this other guy n it just what im looking for they both r perfect for me but dont know hwat to do??
2006-09-09 17:01:44 · update #1
hes already in iraq n he wrote me a message telling me he wants to be with me
2006-09-09 17:06:39 · update #2
it's really confusing. i can't say that if you love him, you'll take him back, because the pain of knowing that he's been with someone else is almost too much to bear.
just hear me out... if you still want him, and are still longing for him, and if you are still DEEPLY IN LOVE with him, then you need to take him back. if you do not want him anymore, don't take him back, but i would, because then you have time to choose. decide if he wants you beccause he wants to be with YOU and wouldn't trade you for anyone... but if he only wants you because things didn't work out between him and his new gf, then you need to think carefully about things.
remember... 2 months isn't a long LONG time... i'd take him back if i was in your shoes from what i know, but i don't know the WHOLE story, so i couldn't say.
2006-09-09 17:04:45 · answer #1 · answered by ILuvTheUsed&MCR 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is very confused. The poor guy has been through an awful lot of horrible things and didn't know if he was going to live or die. This war has destroyed lives. Stay in touch with him and tell him that you will wait until he has it all figured out. It may take some time but if he really loves you it will work out. Good luck.
2006-09-09 17:01:45 · answer #2 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-30 12:58:33 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Help him arrange his funeral. Wear black in advance... hell, what does everyone expect? Either convince him not to go to Iraq (awol to Canada is always a good idea) or let him go and die. What else is there? A positive attitude while you're being shot at doesn't help a whole lot.
2006-09-09 17:03:11 · answer #4 · answered by Andy J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After all of that emotional upsetting experience he put you through he went and got a new girlfriend? Now he wants you back? OH, HONEY....NO !!!! Why bother. Tell him you appreciate what he's doing for his country, but he can lay all of that drama on his new girlfriend. I think he's feeling you alot of crap so you'll soften up to him before he leaves again and he can say he "has" someone here. He's strictly thinking about himself. Dump him. Godloveya.
2006-09-09 17:03:08 · answer #5 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok war times make people crazy war changes men. I see it first hand. i say go back with him. Hes had a hard time and if you love him he deserves a second chance after all he fought for our freedom. You should fight for your love.
2006-09-09 17:01:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO ABSOLUTELY NOTHING. Lord, give yourself some TIME to heal. Give yourself some TIME to observe others actions and reactions. You need to sit back a while and watch what happens. People will show their colors. And you will be able to make a more educated decision.
2006-09-09 17:11:49 · answer #7 · answered by catrina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try this... sit down in a quiet place and close your eyes. take slow deep breaths and relax your body. now think about what you want today, then think about what you want tomorrow, then next week, next year, and so on. either your mind or your heart will show you the path. you just need to calm down and listen.
2006-09-09 17:10:09 · answer #8 · answered by patt_smith 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's obviously going through a really hard time right now and is not sure what he wants. It sounds like you have moved on... be his friend, nothing more.
And....punctuation is a good thing....
2006-09-09 17:00:55 · answer #9 · answered by matty.. 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he realized that he made a mistake, give him another chance.
2006-09-09 17:01:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋