Having a boyfriend. I mean, I get the point that at some point you'll want intimacy, but wtf is the point at fifteen-sixteeen-seventeen? At my school all these girls have boyfriends and are "going out" with boys- what exactly IS "going out"?
Personally, I'm fifteen- I've never had a bf. I don't see the point in "going out" with a boy. I never have the time, lol and I'm wondering where all these girls are finding the time to do their school stuff and, haha, their boyfriends (oh that was sleazy of me to say). And they dump them in like two weeks or so! Where is the logic in having a "boyfriend" at this age?
Just wondering.. thanks.
2006-09-09 16:57:41 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Thats normal during the teenage years..you socialize and figure out what you like in a person.for the years later on when you get into serious..worthwhile relationships..there is no point in having intercourse at such a young age..when you may not be prepared for it..but simple things such as hugging..holding hands..simple kisses wont hurt...maybe youre not ready to be in a relationship or youre just too busy...you seem to be wise for your age though...the girls that dump guys after two weeks are maybe too immature to handle what theyre getting themselves into...but you seem to be on a good track..intelligent..good luck figuring this "going out" business..it never gets any easier lol
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2016-12-12 05:42:52 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cool, keep it up! At your age there is no point in "going out" with a boy unless you meet one you really like and and he really likes you too and is supportive of your school stuff. Both of you can have a meaningful "friendship" until you are old enough to want to develop into something more intimate. Alright, I am dreaming of an ideal. :)
2006-09-09 17:17:33 · answer #3 · answered by Ttraveller 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your Very Smart lol.There's really no point they just want a boyfriend and girls like that just give themselves names.When with their boyfriend they have no time for school work they do it before class or in study lol
2006-09-09 17:06:04 · answer #4 · answered by sugarbdp1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a game for them. Sometimes in high school you do meet someone you stay with for quite a while. A good friend of mine is still married to her high school boyfriend. However, most of them are as you describe. You're a smart and perceptive young woman.
2006-09-09 17:06:52 · answer #5 · answered by Purdey EP 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree completely. Busy people and young people should just date. They should date many different people until it turns into something. It turns so dramatic, you can tell by the other teens' questions on here. You are healthy in attitude, you are normal. Thank your parents and have a great time!
2006-09-09 17:02:57 · answer #6 · answered by steelypen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure either, my first gf was at the age of 17. before that i did have crushes but did not really see the point.
2006-09-09 17:04:38 · answer #7 · answered by CARLOS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wellllll....these girls need attention.....a boyfriend gives them the attention that their parents or friends do not at this age...Most girls your age are interested in boys...some are not...late bloomers..as you obviously are....will come around...try and not be pregnant by 17.....bad stuff
2006-09-09 17:46:39 · answer #8 · answered by nicole 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nice to know there are still some smart young women out there!
2006-09-09 17:01:16 · answer #9 · answered by whataboutme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no point and you are right about that. Its time to study for a good future....boys will always be around...and they can wait.
I am proud of you.
:)
2006-09-09 17:05:45 · answer #10 · answered by ♥♥♥GODDESS♥♥♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋