Just asking because I posted another question about black girls all over white girls in the club. I was accused of being racist because I noticed this, and told that color shouldn't matter. I agree. color shouldn't matter. So why is it ok for black guy to only seek white girls just because "they're easier to get along with" and "black women have nasty attitudes" but not ok for me to notice? Would these guys be racist too?
2006-09-09 16:53:33 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
Ps. I really could care less if black guys date white purple or green girls. I'm just sick of people saying that we're jealous, because that isn't the case. I usually date white guys or puerto ricans anyway.
2006-09-09 16:55:06 · update #1
i don't think ur racist,i notice stuff(that i shouldn't b noticing)all the time too.those guys who think white girls r easier to get along with r dummies females r difficult no matter wat color r race and yes it does sort of make them biased for thinking that way and they can go s... themselves
later
2006-09-09 17:13:19 · answer #1 · answered by kerry15crazycool 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you have a right to ask anything you want. You aren't racist. I've noticed the same thing, and I've wondered that too. Anyone who says black women have nasty attitudes, and are harder to get along with is racist! I know some wonderful black girls! Just ignore the politically correct crowd. Asking such a question doesn't imply insecurity, nor is it racial - it's just curious.
2006-09-10 16:18:03 · answer #2 · answered by irishman 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My sister married a white dude and we all love him, he's one of the family, so we not all like that. I honestly don't care as long as the black woman I see a white dude with ain't my wife, lol. There's a lot of self-segregation in the black community and an intolerance to outsiders. It's stupid, but to a lot of black men, a black man with a white woman is viewed as a sort of justice: something he's taken from "the man", while a white guy with a black woman is seen as a hostile intrusion into the black community. Sorry to say, but the black community struggles with progress too. The idea of "color-blindness" is something many black people expect of other races, but feel no obligation to live up to themselves.
2016-03-27 04:46:35 · answer #3 · answered by Susan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It isn't the color cause a white man dates a black girl I see this alot so it's no different for a white girl to date a black man I don't agree with it but it's their choice.It isn't a big deal anymore it's the way things are & it's been this way for years at least here in Ct it has been
2006-09-09 16:57:28 · answer #4 · answered by sugarbdp1 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Being aware of color does not make you racists. There is a crapload of cultural junk attached to color, and noticing how people interact with each other in context of all that baggage is a valid thing to do.
You may be racist, or maybe not. But merely noticing stuff is not an indicator of anything but curiousity.
2006-09-09 17:02:26 · answer #5 · answered by sheeple_rancher 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well because the black guys don't want to state the obvious....that they date white girls because they are easier to get into bed, in general. Personally I think that anytime you mention interracial dating you are going to be called a bigot. I prefer to date black women over white women. I just find them more attractive and sexy. And the attitude that many black women have is one that prevents them from being a doormat. Most white women are not capable of standing up for themselves against their significant other thus they become doormats. Please take note that I am saying most. I am aware that it is not 100% of the women. It is probably closer to 60%.
2006-09-09 17:22:50 · answer #6 · answered by Samael 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
yeah, i understand. i guess all you can do is just take it for what it is...not all black men are with white women because they're easier to get along with, but because they really do enjoy their company..i was wondering that awhile ago (im half black & pacific islander) but like i said.. just take it for what it is, i guess. and i think alot more people notice that, you are not the only one.
2006-09-09 16:58:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I guess there is nothing wrong with black guys dating a white girls.As long as they are in love with each other.That does matter.
2006-09-09 16:57:30 · answer #8 · answered by hopeless 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't think your raciest for just being observant. Its sad when you can't even comment on something as trivial as that without being accused of being a raciest. Maybe its this politically correct world we live in. I don't think your raciest.
2006-09-09 17:00:49 · answer #9 · answered by noname 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
were not jealous not at all what for? what do black men have to offer to us ? Alot of bull s.h.i.t let the white girls deal with that who cares.
2006-09-09 17:01:56 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋