2006-09-09 16:49:36 · 25 answers · asked by ? 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Love is just an emotional hormone thing. Your mate is a serious responsible promise that goes beyond just attraction. Being attracted to lots of people is normal (especially in our sex-sells society). What you DO about it will determine if you are a grown-up or not.
2006-09-09 16:52:34 · answer #1 · answered by auntiegrav 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I don't think so. I think it means that you're still capable of having a fantasy about another person. As long as you don't cross the line and take action on the fantasy, nothing wrong with that. I also believe we can be attracted to a host of people in our lives. But the one you love, should always be first. If you're not married....that's a different story. You should be free to pursue whomever you would like to date. Godloveya.
2006-09-09 16:53:31 · answer #2 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being attracted to someone else just means you are not dead yet. However, you should not act on the attraction if you want to stay with your mate.
2006-09-09 16:52:45 · answer #3 · answered by lady01love 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this a physical attraction or personality also? If just physical then I say you would still love your mate
2006-09-09 16:55:29 · answer #4 · answered by yankeecowboy10 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. There were people you were attracted to before, and there will be others after. It's what you do about it that's a test of love.
2006-09-09 16:52:11 · answer #5 · answered by Avid 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, but just because the grass may look greener on the other side, doesn't mean that it actually is. Make a decision, and be honest to yourself and your mate.
2006-09-09 16:56:24 · answer #6 · answered by pizzasjedi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it depends: if regardless of how much you are attracted to this person, you still wouldn't even dream of cheating on your mate then it doesnt mean you dont love him/her but if you have an intention of doing something with this other person then it's not love buddy
2006-09-09 16:53:55 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No- its not bad to be attracted to someone else as long
as you don't act on it. It's human nature to look at ano-
ther person and its a form of entertainment. That's all
so relax and enjoy the view!
2006-09-09 16:53:44 · answer #8 · answered by saint5nina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because you have a Honda Civic that works perfectly fine,never gave you any trouble and you don't plan on selling it.That doesn't mean you can't look at or want that brand new shiny Mercedes!
In other words it doesn't hurt to look and want or even fantasize in your mind. Just don't act on it!
2006-09-09 16:57:23 · answer #9 · answered by bubblin'21 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no...well it depends. humans are wired to feel attraction to the opposite sex (excluding some). so to answer your question no. as long as you don't take any action then, your fine. though if you find it is hard not to, and you want your relationship with your currenst mate to work out tell her/him. hopefully she/he can help you.
2006-09-09 16:52:35 · answer #10 · answered by Sun And Sky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋