What do you live your life for? Where do you get determination to achieve things in life?

Question

What do you live your life for? I seems that right now I am existing and not living.I live it pointlessly. I work at dead end low paying job.
I don't study anywhere.Didn't join any clubs or anything.I have no goals whats ever. Barely have any interests. I sleep,work,eat and thats it.Same thing everyday. When I started to think about it ,it got me thinking that other people live to achieve something,they have determination,will power,accomplishments. Where do they get it from. I sick living life like that. I want to make some one out of my self so I can be proud of,so can be my friends and family. I just feel like a total loser. I even feel too lazy to date. Where do I get that determination and will power to go set goals achieve things.

Answer 1

You gotta think, what do I wanna do with my life? What do I enjoy?
You can't live life for anyone but yourself. This is all about you. You only have one life, you better get the most out of it.
Maybe its best to start by finding a job you like, working out so that you feel confident, and FIND SOME INTERESTS! No one can do that for you.

Answer 2

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Answer 3

That's a lot of questions. I'll start with the first one.

Mostly, my parents and my brother. I would have killed myself long ago if not for the pain I would cause them. My family has enough woes. My father is dying of hep c and diebetes, my paternal grandfather is dying of cancer, my maternal grandfather died two years ago, the other grands are long gone.

But lately I have begun to study with some of Jehovah's Witnesses, and I am gaining some hope through what I am learning.

I don't.
I have boubts of debilitating depression, if I have one while I am an engaged in something, I do not complete it.

Most people have an odd view of life. Most strive and strive for money, but money by itself is is just paper, plastic, or metals that aren't worth what is stamped on them. Others strive for things, for stuff. They need more and more, because that is the only form of gratification that they know; the association and admiration of others that want what you have. It is shallow in every right, and it is a fleeting thing, unless you continue your amassment of things so your 'friends' will come and be with you so they can pretend they own it all.


What ever you want to do, make sure you know WHY you want it, and for what end.

Answer 4

I live for my son. That's it. He needs me and he deserves a nice life. That keeps me going. WIthout him, I would probably be some pathetic drunk by now.

You sound a bit depressed. Have you looked into getting that taken care of?

Answer 5

i live for other ppl

Answer 6

try the military,, u.s.m.c., or the army,,,