people find out i have a girlfriend and immediatley say things like "yeah you can go f*ck her every night." I hate when people do that and i dont know what to do when they do that...(once i was in a bad mood and i knocked someone out for saying something similar to that) because theres nothing like that between me and her and i dont want it that way till im older. (im 14)
what should i do?
2006-09-09 16:28:58 · 13 answers · asked by PourMeAnother 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well, first off I'm impressed that you're willing to wait until you're older to become sexually active. There is a lot more to sex than just the physical act!
To your question...most of these guys are jealous, it sounds to me. And, they don't sound as if they are as mature as you are. My brother had (still has! Unfortunately some guys never grow up!) great way of dealing with jerks like that. He sort of looks at the guy who makes the comment...like you would look at something really disgusting, and then he looks at the others and says, "Now we know why HE doesn't have a girlfriend." Then he turns around and walks away.
Let me know how it turns out!
2006-09-09 16:37:51 · answer #1 · answered by hrprrbn 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If they're your friends tell them to knock it off and just be straight with them. Although if they're people you don't know that well then tell them to mind their own business. What happens between you and your girl is between you two and only you two.
It's really cool that you're interested in waiting until you're older because that's the right thing. Too many people are forcing themselves into situations like that because of peer pressure. Congratz on being bigger then that. Hope I helped. =)
2006-09-09 23:38:39 · answer #2 · answered by xcutiejessx 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't get physical, Dude. Just look at them and say " I don't appreciate you disrespecting my relationship and if you ever want to hear anything about my girlfriend, don't talk like that about her again." Then, they will get the message. Some people are jerks! Godloveya!
2006-09-09 23:32:54 · answer #3 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just have to brush it off without reacting. They're just showing their age and immaturity; your attitude toward your girlfriend is much more mature and you're doing right by both of you. Don't lose your temper and sink to their level!
2006-09-09 23:32:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Since you have no self control, keep your mouth shut. Good grief, why are you using language like that? What would your parents say? If your girlfriend finds out it will hurt her so much.
2006-09-09 23:31:51 · answer #5 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'M HOPING YOU ALSO DON'T TALK LIKE THAT. IT'S A BAD HABIT, YOUR ANGER IS ALSO A BAD HABIT. DON'T HIT PEOPLE. JUST DON'T SAY ANYTHING. THEY DON'T NEED ANY ANSWERS. JUST WALK AWAY. LIKE YOU SAID YOUR ONLY 14. EVERY ONE IS NOT HAVING SEX NO MATTER WHAT THEY SAY.
2006-09-09 23:33:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them to shut up or just ignore them sticks and stones man and it's good that you want to wait.
2006-09-09 23:31:07 · answer #7 · answered by jenn_burks311 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They have no respect,you don't need friends like that it will hurt you relationship with your girl.Tell them to back off and mean it.
2006-09-09 23:32:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ignore them those dickwads. it would be nice to beat the hell out of those people, but if you do, you just prove that you're like them. so yeah. ignore them. i bet they don't have girlfriends. peace.
2006-09-09 23:38:21 · answer #9 · answered by jose 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell them just because you have a girl friend doesn't mean you have to f*ck her so you can tell any one who says that you can tell them that they can go f*ck them selves
2006-09-09 23:34:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋