me and my ex broke up about 3 months ago..It was a mutual decison since we was bout to go to college. I said lets see what happens(like if we met some guy)..She met a guy and is currently dating him. She loves him more than me..but now she thinks it wouldnt work because of society and what not. My heart is still with her we talk each day, call each other baby and say i love u, and we are best friends. She says her bf is nice..and she thinks she may want to have sex with him. It hurts so bad cuz i was gona ask her b4 she got wit him..Wut should i do to get her back or lose some of these feelings
2006-09-09 16:14:52 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Honey, I'm so sorry to hear this. Sounds like she's moved on and you need to do the same. What's making it worse is that you and her are still communicating and she's telling you that she loves you. No real best friend would do you like that. Don't even try to get her back. That society crap is for the birds and you can do better. You're going to college, right? You'll meet new people and have plenty more experiences. It's hurting right now, but it will subside. Time to let her go, sweetie. And that means you need to cut off all ties with her and take time to heal yourself. Maybe later on down the road, you guys can have a bonafide friendship. Work on yourself so that you'll make someone a good partner. Good luck, baby girl.
2006-09-09 16:22:28 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-08 02:49:28 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you do love her, and a part of you always will. I also think that Sherita is right. It's time for you to move on to the next chapter of your life. You were meant to be with her for a period of time....and it appears that the time you shared is over. That doesn't mean that you can't continue to be friends, but you need to explore new horizons and possibilities. Try and get involved with new friends at school. Join clubs, go places, hang out with new people. It's time to gain experience with who you are WHERE you are, if that makes any sense. Good luck.
2006-09-09 16:38:27 · answer #3 · answered by Autumn BrighTree 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SHERITA H is correct hunny. If she talks to you about this guy and wanting to have sex with him, she doesn't realize how much it hurts you. It seems she is just keeping you hanging on for no reason. Time to take a break from her hunny and try and move on. it may take a while which is why you need space from her. Talking like this with her is only making it harder on you.
2006-09-09 18:39:09 · answer #4 · answered by angelic_devil30 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you may't "get" her to open as a lot as you. she will be in a position to open up if she feels tender - yet sounds to me like you adult men have some themes that are complicating your relationship. the suggestion i might want to offer is - don't be a million) too determined, or 2) too pushy. basically be your self, have a sturdy time at the same time with her - yet don't be throughout her in any way. ok, she has this loopy theory that you surely want her for sex; properly, do not develop sex in any respect, shop your fingers to your self, and delight in the communique. i'm no longer truly particular what her concern is - i do not get it how can a woman be with someone for 2 years, and be confident that this human being is largely at the same time with her because of sex; it truly is basically stupid. It sounds to me like she, herself, would not know what she needs - and it would want to be kind of a risky concern for you, as you may want to get your coronary heart damaged very truly. basically be careful, ok. sturdy success.
2016-11-25 22:57:17 · answer #5 · answered by powel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well. I know that it would hurtful you so much since she met other man instead you. but i guess that only is what u will to do is let her go and to be happy who she is.. but important to be happy w urself.. i guess she just curious about a man or who she is or whatever... but only thing OUT OF THERE ARE SO MANY LADY OUT THERE U CAN PICK ONE WHO IS VERY RIGHT INSTEAD HER.. But she might will get hurt that u got someone instead whatever she thinkin to make u a waste.. Or She just want to hurt u what have been through.. I dont know about this story but since both of ya was having a problem or whatever since she might be flat heart or she not really feel of you and she dont want to hurt you until she found a man then will remove you.. that is only way i know because i have been done it be4 so if you really want her to back then is there anything u want to prove her and make her a choise between u or him! so see what she answer that question.. it have been hurtful me alot since i have been with a woman so i change my life to be with a man.. because she have been hold me likely i was in dog house so i am not allow what she treat me likely that shyt then i found a man who treat me so happy and treat me likely i am good person so i am decide to choise him instead that woman because she is in prision right now cause she break in the house and crackhead and really bad.. so that why i decide to choise a man who i was with right now... so i got finally to got my life come back to really wonderful life and stable and got a son!! if u want to chat with someone who u want to know about the adanvce just talk to me.. i always give a good but sometimes bad but it depend on ur life and feeling.. but remember this i always to be respectful person.. but right now i am too bytch not friendly anymore because 2 person was trying to ruin my life since about my son plus other many thing.. and NOW MY RELATIONSHIP IS GETTING SETTLE DOWN RIGHT NOW, u know what i am trying to say.. really honest w u really damn that 2 person!!! they are bytch each other!!!
2006-09-09 16:41:42 · answer #6 · answered by Shawna Weathers 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You yourself have dug your own GRAVE. No Body in this world can help you. Go and search some other girl and be cautious this time not to repeat the same mistake again.
2006-09-09 16:24:57 · answer #7 · answered by a j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
since it is an 'ex' so why do you want to get back together. stop calling her and get on with your own life. she got on with hers why don't you.
2006-09-09 16:18:47 · answer #8 · answered by pianist 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U dont, Thats why u called her a X g/f
2006-09-09 16:16:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over her...she has someone else now.
2006-09-10 07:51:25 · answer #10 · answered by Scully 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋