A friend of mine was watching some stuff and it had two guys kissing, which I REALLY enjoyed. My friend said their was no way I could enjoy that and still be straight. But in my opinion it is WAY better with two guys kissing than a guy and a girl, and I still consider myself straight...
Who is correct, me that I still can be straight, or my friend that I cannot be?
2006-09-09 16:08:55 · 31 answers · asked by Nathan-1988 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Can we say, "Denial" boys and girls? I'm being facetious, of course. Depending on its context I can understand how a straight man watching two men would be far more erotic than watching a man and a woman. It's a matter of writing, acting, and directing skill. If it's porn, however, then I must revert to my accusation that you are in denial.
2006-09-09 17:54:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I enjoy watching two guys kiss, and I'm gay. But I also enjoy watching two girls kiss, and if the plot is good, and I'm really into the story, I also enjoy watching a guy and a girl kiss. But by "REALLY enjoyed" do you mean you were aroused? If that's the case then you probably have some attraction to guys, even if you also have an attraction to girls. When it comes down to it gay and straight are just labels that society puts on us. You don't have to fit into a perfect "straight" or "gay" mold that society puts you into. What it comes down to is, do what makes you happy. If you'd like you can put it into a category or not. That's up to you.
2006-09-09 19:31:11 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is very open-minded of you to appreciate that guys can make a couple, and indeed many guys have!
There is just a very fine line dividing gay, straight, bi. Follow your heart and don't be trapping yourself by conventional wordings.
Also, sexual orientation is a little bit more than kissing. You have to consider whether you emotionally love someone and whether your sexual desire is triggered by males or females. In my opinion, just enjoying watching two guys kissing is not quite enough for your or your friend to find out your orientation.
By the way, I enjoy watching animal documentaries. And when animals are caught mating on screen, I consider it much better than watching porn (which usually degrades women). According to your friend's logic, I have to have a relationship with animals. See how ridiculous it is?
Be confident and keep your own judgment.
2006-09-10 01:56:10 · answer #3 · answered by dealer 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hmm. Not sure on this one. As a straight guy, two guys kissing turns me off. But that's just a personal reaction to the imagery.
The male sexual reaction is orientated around imagery - this is why men are more turned on by porn than women (generally! - i know some women love it!)
Ask yourself this, was it the erotic visual of a sexually stimulated person that excited you, or that fact that the persons were male?
I'd say you are straight, but you SHOULD ask yourself some very deep and honest questions about whether you are in denial.
2006-09-13 05:23:52 · answer #4 · answered by Subic 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nathan, take no notice of people on this with their silly shallow answers..
If you were gay then you would know it because you would only be attracted to guys, which you clearly are not.
And if you were Bi you would be attracted to guys in general but it doesn't seem like that, just the video of the guys kissing is what has gotten you going.
This is a common problem these days, that everyone has to have a label, and it's common for many people to experiment with things like this as they grow up, people have different taboo's but it doesn't make you a Gay. Only you know your own mind and don't let anyone dictate it too you!
Good luck with this, have fun with it
Ash
2006-09-10 11:18:12 · answer #5 · answered by Asherz 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about labels. To each their own. If two guys kissing gets you horny, then watch 2 guys kissing. If wmone are your thing, go with that. If you like both, then switch off. Just do who you enjoy doing and watch what you enjoy watching.
2006-09-10 02:06:05 · answer #6 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you? teenagers normally have a period where they are curious about the different sexualities and even though they may not be aware of the fact that they are curious, they can feel the effects it has. such as liking two guys kissing but still being attracted to females and not males.
if you are a teenager then you could be either, but most likely straight as you still consider yourself straight. if you are an adult then you may be a bi-sexual.
2006-09-10 01:41:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you know your true feelings, so only you know if you are straight or not. I wouldn't get so bound up with what your friend says. The problem these days is that we all are so worried about what other people think, and we tend to allow others to dictate how we feel.
So you like the sight of two men being intimate. That doesn't make you gay. Do you want to experience that intimacy with another guy? Even if you did, it still wouldn't make you gay. You might be bi. You might be gay. You might, indeed, be straight. All that matters is how you feel, and what you want.
2006-09-09 16:41:55 · answer #8 · answered by Autumn BrighTree 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
In your world you're always correct, and i can't see why you can't enjoy something like that and still be straight... you friend might be trying to hide his own confusion and homosexuality by calling you one. It happends all the time.
2006-09-09 16:12:51 · answer #9 · answered by Rvardell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure, I know I enjoy 2 guys kissing
:)
2006-09-09 16:11:51 · answer #10 · answered by Super 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋