i met him two months ago, he is 18, im 14, he has been a wonderful friend to me but i found out he has a girlfriend and we havent spoken since
2006-09-09 15:56:21 · 14 answers · asked by class of 2010!!! rock on 2 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Dancing
Your parents love you. Sometimes you have to take their word for it.
How much would they love you if they did not watch out for your happiness and to protect you from harm?
You are 14 and you have to obey your parents.
It is one of the 10 commandments. If it is one of ten of God's rules for living, It must be important.
Anyhow, You are 14. You shouldn't even be dating. Well maybe group dates to the movies or bowling. there is a big difference between an 18 yearly and a 14 year old. Has he started college yet? Are you a High School Freshman?
Maybe when he is 24 and you are 20, and if he doesn't have a girlfriend, you could go out with him them.
Listen to your parents. As long as They support you or care for you in any way, Even After you are 18, you need to listen to them.
How would you like to do everything you can for a child, day in and day out for over 19 years and while you are still taking care of them and loving them, they spit in your face. And then you have to still love them and take care of them.
Show your parents respect. You wouldn't have made it to this point with their constant love. Get it?
Tell them how much you appreciate them and show your parents that you love them.
God Bless you, ;-)
2006-09-10 07:16:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A fourteen year old girl has no business with an 18 year old guy. It's fine to have him as a casual friend but nothing more. He has a girlfriend and that says it all. Your parents are right to forbid this (even if he were interested, which he isn't). You've got a long way to go before you'll be emotionally ready for a serious love affair. Enjoy your teen years with friends your own age.
2006-09-09 23:01:20 · answer #2 · answered by missingora 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are too young to feel the emotions but you are inexperienced. Your parents are trying to protect you while you gain experience. The fact that this guy has a girlfriend is the answer to your question, your parents are right. He has his own life at this point and you need to let go. It's not easy but you'll wind up hurting much worse if you try hanging on... from one who has experienced it.
2006-09-10 00:01:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first of all....he has a girlfriend so even if your parents were on the ground begging you to be with him, you cant exactly do that...
secondly, even if he was single and in the dirt begging you to be with him, do you seriously want to be in a relationship with a guy that age? 4 years isn't alot but some guy who could be in university shouldnt be dating some girl who could be getting ready for high school. im only a year older than you and i'm telling you that u should listen to your parents!! parents always know best and you should ALWAYS listen to them
2006-09-09 23:06:12 · answer #4 · answered by candybraidz_207 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust your parents instincts,They are usually right about that stuff,if he is a wonderful friend then keep it that way,you wouldn't want to ruin a good friendship,boyfriends are a dime a dozen but a friend is forever.Have fun enjoy your teen years,you will have lots of time for commitment later.
2006-09-09 23:06:04 · answer #5 · answered by sassy brat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he was just trying to use you.
That is all an older guy REALLY wants with a younger vulnerable girl like yourself.
The fact that he has a girlfriend is just him sending you a sign loud and clear. That he maybe doesn't "love" you the way that you think you love him.
2006-09-10 00:28:24 · answer #6 · answered by plurmishmishfish 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see ur parent s no better and if they no that he haves a girlfriend and ur hurt they are gonna hate him more!find some one else ur age cause these older guys just want sex from you ,maybe you didnt give it to him thats why hes gone so fast or you already did!you can find someone 4 you ,ur still younge
2006-09-09 23:02:00 · answer #7 · answered by ONE FRIENDLYGIRL2NO 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They can't forbid that you have feelings for him (that is near impossible). But they can forbid that you see him. If you respect and love your parents you should head their advice... afterall, do you think they forbid it just to make your life suck?!
2006-09-09 23:03:34 · answer #8 · answered by Angie B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl you are too young... trust me been there and done that...if he has a girl friend then that means you were most likey a booty call or a new one..... besides if he messin with you and her he has girls on the other side....even if he cheats she is his number one if he cheats and still with her...thats means no matter how many girls he is with , he is not willing to leave her
2006-09-09 23:04:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't be in love your 14
LOVE is a serious word thats wayyy over used
2006-09-10 00:25:16 · answer #10 · answered by Danielle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋