I'm currently seeing three women..Hey I'm single!!! But the only problem is that the talks of marriage have crept in from all three. I truly love them all and they all hold a special place in my heart but I know that I'm going to have to let two of them go. I'm tired of the running around and I do want to be married. The only problem is that I don't know which one to chose.
Girlfriend # 1 Stimulates me spiritually. She has a good heart and loves me more than anything. She extremly attractive and is a family oriented female.
Girlfriend # 2 Is a homeboday and a wonderful mother of our 2 kids. She so sweet. She's willing to do anything I ask of her. I've put her through alot and she's still been by myside.
Girlfriend # 3 By far is the best sexual partner of them all. But she gets jealous easy. She also stimulates my mind with good converstaion
PLEASE HELP - I NEED SOME ADVICE
2006-09-09 15:51:52 · 17 answers · asked by undercoverbrotha 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Just in case your wondering. I take care of my children extremly well. I'm not a dad beat father. My children are spoiled to say the least. It's just that neither one was planned and even though their mother and I have seen each other off and on. I don't ant to marry someone just because the children. After all I think it would hurt them more to see thier mother and father argue, or grow apart from one another if I made a decision to marry her and the "Love" is not there.
2006-09-09 17:57:30 · update #1
You are almost like me and I know where you are coming from. If it was me I would keep seeing them all and find a new one to be my one and only. (Nish, I am just kidding). Tell all the three the truth and see who still loves you after the truth comes out. The one who is still around is the true love because she loves you for who and what you are.
2006-09-09 16:00:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice: Marry the woman who gave you two children, and put all your energy and love into making a good life for them. If you had no children, my answer might be different...but they are here now, and you owe it to them (and their Mother) to step up to the plate and do the right thing. And be happy.
Any man can be a father. It takes a special man to be a Daddy.
2006-09-09 16:03:56 · answer #2 · answered by Rhonda 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should marry the one you love, if you can't decide then chances are you aren't ready for marriage. Why not start out by having a monogamous relationship with the mother of your children and go from there.
2006-09-09 16:21:16 · answer #3 · answered by curls 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marry the mother of your 2 kids.
2006-09-09 15:55:44 · answer #4 · answered by MJQ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girlfriend #1 sounds like a keeper. #2 sounds a little co-dependent but you must always take care of your children. #3 wants to control you and jealousy is a real negative. That's my opinion and I'm sticking to it! You're a little naughty to be fooling around when you already have made a family with one woman....
2006-09-09 15:55:24 · answer #5 · answered by Decoy Duck 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
#a million what makes you think of she would be waiting to no longer sell off you lower back? She's used you adequate by the sounds of it. no count how good the intercourse is, do no longer permit her get any! #2 looks like a superb female, yet do you have chose a mushy dating with somebody who does not have plenty in common with you? do no longer permit this bypass on too long, she might have visions of the destiny with you once you're finding the completed opposite direction. do no longer harm her too plenty, the quicker you get it over with, the extra effective. #3 You mentioned it your self, she looks like an excellent adventure. supply her a try. If it does not artwork out, do no longer fall lower back to #a million or #2, there is so plenty extra fish interior the sea.
2016-12-12 05:41:23 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you been cheating? thats a bad thing..you must have bad karma!! If so none of those girls deserve to have you..but if i had to choose, through what you told me i would pick #2 becasue you had 2 kids with her..you dont want you children growing up without thier father thats to depressing to see and live with..thats horrible :(
2006-09-09 15:57:10 · answer #7 · answered by Abercrombie Kid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A caring, intelligent man would have married the mother of his children long ago.
2006-09-09 16:00:14 · answer #8 · answered by carolewkelly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
#1 I guess, but since #2 is the mother of your 2 kids, then it should be her plus you mentioned she also has good qualities. Anyway, it all depends on you. Make up your mind.
2006-09-09 15:58:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, the girl number two is the mother of your 2 kids... go for her.
2006-09-09 15:59:37 · answer #10 · answered by Dawn Treader 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋