this if for my friend teresa I'm tierd of people always thinking I'm weak and cant stand up for myself becuse I have real thin bones so everyone pushes me around or tells me I just tell priscilla aka slim to stand up for me cuse she's relly strong I relly want them to think im stong and not weak but they just laugh they think im to skinny and thin cus you can see my bones
2006-09-09 15:39:33 · 14 answers · asked by ♥La Dulce Chica♥ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
your question doesn't make a lot of sense. I get the idea that you have serious health problems and that this causes you pain and suffering as well as social problems. First of all I recommend getting some psychotherapy. You have some very difficult health issues and you need help in coping with them. I don't know how old you are, but you sound young. If that's the case tell your parents you are having a very hard time socially and that you need help. You'r body might be weak and thin but you're heart and soul can be huge and strong. I think you need to ask for help and yahoo answers is not the place. Talk to your parents, your teachers, your friends. Ask for help. Also, ask god for help
2006-09-09 15:46:50 · answer #1 · answered by guitaryogi 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Skinny can be hard. I have friends with the same problem, and I know it can be difficult.
First, I would suggest that if it really bothers you you do something about it- start doing pushups before bed every night or join a gym or something.
In the mean time, know that it's all in the way you act- stand tall, and stand your ground. When others laugh at you, laugh along. Make jokes about yourself, and they will see you as an equal, not an underdog. Likely, they're just pulling your leg and don't really have any malice about them.
2006-09-09 15:44:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it time it's a metabolism thing some people burn calories faster that's why your skinny, give it time and in about ten years the bullies will be fatties.
Once a bully harassed me for a long time throughout school, one time he smacked me in the back of the head during study hall I had enough and turned around and punched him in the jaw surprised the hell out of him and scared the s***t out of me but he never bullied me again.
2006-09-09 15:45:15 · answer #3 · answered by Chris 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Averyone thought I was not tuff because I was thin and especially in my younger years,,but they found out differently when I acctually just fought one of them...It's always best not to fight and avoid it if possible ,,someone will get hurt. if your young you will have plenty of time to fill in...I joined basketball,aquafins{like water ballet} and used to lift light weights and jog with my uncle. I ate everything and didnt gain a pound. Start excersizing it helps build calcium in your bones
2006-09-09 15:48:30 · answer #4 · answered by Spinning Times LLC 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not head to the outback steak house and get a 16oz prime rib, that will make you gain some weight.
2006-09-09 15:42:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should eat more but how come ur not a bit fat because here there is nothing to do only eat and sit and sleep and now i know why most of da american ppl r faat!!because of eating n sleeping so i think u should eat more and try to eat junk food more.gd luck
2006-09-09 15:49:25 · answer #6 · answered by Sweet gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you DONT NEED people around you who are gonna judge you on your looks anyway...and for sure PUSH back...then theyll stop pushing you round...however, if you are too thin...you need to look into that. i was kinda sorta like that when i was young (really thin, i ate like everyone else) ...got to my normal weight not too many years ago...when i was young, i didnt push people round...just did it with my mouthy mouth...so now...i have the wieght & the mouthy mouth....lol...just be healthy!!! good luck!! PS.....make sure you go to your 20th high school reunion...LOL...
2006-09-09 15:59:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
SEE THAT IS WHY YOU NEED TO GET MEAN!! THEY ARE NOT EXPECTING YOU TO DO ANYTHING BECAUSE YOU ARE HAVING YOUR FRIEND STAND UP FOR YOU. GET CRUNK. DON'T USE VIOLENCE BUT OPEN YOUR MOUTH!! YOU WILL GET SICK OF IT ONE DAY AND ANGER WILL COME FROM A PLACE IN YOUR SOUL THAT YOU DON'T KNOW EXSISTS. IT'S WHAT'S ON THE INSIDE NOT THE OUTSIDE!!
2006-09-09 15:43:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first u have to is tell them 2 stop if they dont then yell at them then they'll probly stop or tell someone how u fell then she or him will tell them 2 stop hope this advise helps u aatleast 4 something
2006-09-09 15:46:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
surprise the bullies, you have the strength to be strong, put your foot down,,, stand up to yourself,,,,good luck
2006-09-09 15:44:55 · answer #10 · answered by E.M. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋