me and my girlfriend broke up a couple weeks ago and i didnt even realize what i had until we ended it. It was a mutual agreement, because she wanted to get more physical than i was ready for at the time (even though im with girls, im still a christian, and i wanted to wait) and now i think im ready and i miss her, she was such a beautiful, wonderful girl. Any ideas or advice on how to tell her how i feel?
NO bible thumpers PLEASE...been there done that.
2006-09-09 15:26:48 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Tell her you miss her and ask her to start over, Go out for dinner and take a long walk and talk out how you feel..
I wish you all the best with this.............
2006-09-09 15:31:20 · answer #1 · answered by Super 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps I am confused as to what you wanted to wait for... but anyway.. I think you need to talk to her and tell her you miss her and how you feel. How you felt as well, and what your expectations for a relationship are.. what hers are.. and see if you have any mutual ground on which to base a relationship. (missing her is not enough)
I had loved a woman who was not ready for a relationship, did not want to complicate her life and the raising of her children and I left her alone for some years while she dealt with her life. I found her again much later on, and she finally agreed to go with me to Europe to live when she got well and my parents did not need me any longer. (by this time I had taken on other obligations and she had cancer.) She passed away last year so we will never have the life together I would have liked.. but I will always love her. You may lose her, but you can always love her.
2006-09-09 15:42:11 · answer #2 · answered by Silvatungfox 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just sit down with her and tell her how you feel and what was going on. Let her know that you needed the time to sort out somethings and you're ready to take the relationship to the next level.
2006-09-10 02:18:03 · answer #3 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummm, though, I think you have to ask yourself a question: are you sure are u in love with that girl?, if so, maybe you can have an opportunity here, but, and here's come the but of course, only if she feels the same about you, so, my opinion is you two got to talk a lot about yourselves and your expectations about the meaning of a relationship, maybe both of you can land on a common ground, if not, then you have to close your eyes and move on.
2006-09-09 15:34:54 · answer #4 · answered by apernett 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I believe that once an Ex, always an Ex. You can't go back.
Live and learn, and maybe your next relationship will have a happy ending. If you ended this one over this battle, and you get back together, you'd just end it over something else.
2006-09-09 15:31:40 · answer #5 · answered by michael941260 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i really dont kno what to say...but you have to tell her exactly how you feel and tell her what you told us..u didnt kno what you had til it was gone...it has happened to me before..she was the first girl i ever dated and i was always scared to do anything with her..and she didnt like that...but when i moved to another state...she didnt like it...so she ended it ....i tried to tell her that i was ready to try things wit her....but i dunno what happened....such a long story
2006-09-10 11:24:49 · answer #6 · answered by MzChamillinator 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her exactly how you feel that you love her and that you want her back.if you need someone to talk to then get in touch with me.
cinderellamirage@yahoo.com
2006-09-09 17:00:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out with someone really pretty and make her jealous
2006-09-09 15:30:46 · answer #8 · answered by DylanS. LOVER 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell her what you just told us...nothing but nothing ever tops the truth!
2006-09-09 15:54:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
call her, talk to her.
2006-09-09 15:35:21 · answer #10 · answered by twilight 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋