2006-09-09 15:08:40 · 10 answers · asked by XvXvXbnhbbvcx 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Give them money.
2006-09-09 15:13:37 · answer #1 · answered by normobrian 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TECHNIQUES IN HANDLING PEOPLE AND WAYS TO MAKE PEOPLE LIKE YOU:
1. Don't criticize, condemn or complain.
2. Give honest, sincere appreciation.
3. Arouse in the other person an eager want.
4. Become genuinely interested in other people.
5. Smile.
6. Remember that a person's name is to that person the sweetest and most important sound in any language.
7. Be a good listener. Encourage others to talk about themselves.
8. Talk in terms of the other person's interests.
9. Make the other person feel important--and do it sincerely.
TO WIN PEOPLE TO YOUR WAY OF THINKING:
1. The only way to get the best of an argument is to avoid it.
2. Show respect for the other person's opinions. Never say, "You're wrong."
3. If you are wrong, admit it quickly and emphatically.
4. Begin in a friendly way.
5. Get the other person saying "yes, yes" immediately.
6. Let the other person do a great deal of the talking.
7. Let the other person feel that the idea is his or hers.
8. Try honestly to see things from the other person's point of view.
9. Be sympathetic with the other person's ideas and desires.
10. Appeal to the nobler motives.
11. Dramatize your ideas.
12. Throw down a challenge.
There are more where these came from. If you are serious about it, buy yourself the book listed below and study it over, it is full of the truth and help in dealing with people.
2006-09-09 22:46:22 · answer #2 · answered by Goldenrain 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Take lessons from Bill Clinton and lie so good that even now people think he is a great man. Yes that is what does it the best. The gift of gab will get you further than anything else will.
2006-09-09 22:17:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no magic pill!
Some will say that all you have to do is be positive, full of life, energetic and so much more.
But where is the compassion in this?
There is too much sorrow, suffering and tears here!
Who among all of us can make this go away?
I can't! I wish I could though!
No one has ever been kind, gentle or powerful enough
to make it so! If you think I am wrong, prove it!!!!
DJ Shadow - Hindsight!!!
2006-09-09 22:30:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Set a very good example. People tend to emulate positive, energetic people and avoid those with negative, dark energy.
2006-09-09 22:10:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To answer this I would need to know your motivation why for you want to influence people...
2006-09-09 22:20:56 · answer #6 · answered by Vivian X 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to...
Just think. Imagine actually having to interact in real life with some of the morons on here?
*Shivers... I say leave them the hell alone!
2006-09-09 22:14:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Goes back to your mentality.How you treat ppl?
2006-09-09 22:17:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good manners and respect
2006-09-09 22:13:59 · answer #9 · answered by witchfromoz2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BY YOUR WORKS!!!
2006-09-09 22:11:04 · answer #10 · answered by XYZ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋