and he also cut magazines pictures and keep it in his wallets with different types of woman including one that looks like me! I'm starting to get worry and i think's that is not normal and i think he is obsessionate and also have some esquizofrenia or a any type of desorder!!! shoul i finish this relatioshinp with him soon?? what is your opinion???
2006-09-09 14:55:51 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
You are disturbed by this or you would not be asking the question. Many times people seek justification (or approval) from others so they do not feel guilty for making difficult decisions.
My gut feeling is that something is wrong, however, I don't know in what way -- perhaps it is wrong for you or perhaps there is something wrong with him. You said he had different types of women that he carries in his wallet -- why in his wallet? Why does he need them with him? Why can't they just be at home?
People are different and simply cutting photos of women out of a magazine is not abnormal. It depends upon his motives for doing this. Ask him in a neutral tone why he does that. If you add any kind of tone in your voice you are giving him a clue to the answer you do or do not want to hear. Let him have the freedom to be honest with you. Most people who have "disorders" do not know they have "disorders" and will talk freely about them and if he doesn't have a "disorder" then he should have no problem explaining it to you.
I do not know and a non-medical professional should not speculate on whether he is schizophrenic as this is a complex illness and follows no "typical" pattern.
I would say that because you are uncomfortable you should at a minimum put some distance in your relationship so you can think. This time away will also provide you the opportunity to see how he reacts which is additionally good information to have when determining if you should be "worried".
I am very sorry you are going through this and hope that he is okay and simply working on an art project / collage. You are dating, not married, so you have the ability to walk away without an explanation or legal proceedings -- if you continue your relationship, circumstances could change and you could be more seriously involved with him which will only complicate the issue further. Best to you!
2006-09-09 15:23:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
some human beings do not convey love with words or flowers. You stated he's continually there for you and enables you with the help of the complicated circumstances. it really is how he shows his love. I merely examine "The 5 Love Languages" through Gary Chapman. It has certain concepts that couples can prepare one yet another love interior the way it really is significant for the different man or woman. i quite advise you examine it, and get him to verify it too - tell him that it would advise lots to you if he did. i imagine you'll see that there are a form of concepts to be a "romantic" - he merely isn't speaking your language yet.
2016-10-15 23:50:29 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are starting to get freaked out by the guy you are dating then why are you still dating him ? Aren't you dating him to find out if he is the right one ? If hes freaking you out then leave him if your cool with it then stay with him , its all about what you want how you feel . no one can tell you whats in your heart only you .
2006-09-09 15:06:41 · answer #3 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he thinks you look like a famous person thats cool, hes trying to say that you a beautiful, but he just cant find the right words...if its really really outta hand talk to him....that might get some things clear
2006-09-09 15:00:57 · answer #4 · answered by peteypag2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it is what you want to do and do what you think is right but be careful because if he is obsessed or mentaly ill he could go off on you good luck to you i hope it works out for you in the end
2006-09-09 15:06:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's kinda a creepy thing to do, but maybe it means he's thinking about you all the time. It could also mean he has serious problems.
2006-09-09 15:01:28 · answer #6 · answered by Stephanie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GIRL CUT THE CHAT DUMP HIM AND CALLTHE PO-PO
if you see little notes on your car or window and if you see a guy in a black sweat suit following you!
2006-09-09 15:03:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go back to Mexico and hide out from him. He's a whack job.
2006-09-09 15:02:22 · answer #8 · answered by normobrian 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be glad that you look like a magazine model.
2006-09-09 15:01:16 · answer #9 · answered by kickbutt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
learn some english
2006-09-09 15:00:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋