My friend came into first period on Friday saying that this wkend, her b/f was going to give her oral. We all told her that was nasty, and she said she wouldn't do it. Today she called me saying that they did go ahead and do it, and afterward he told her she smelled like acid down there. I told her she should talk to her mother about going to get checked out by her doc. She got mad at me and hung up. What should I do? I was just trying to help. :(
2006-09-09 14:44:07 · 13 answers · asked by ?~GotLove~? 5 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Grin. It sounds horrible now, but give you and your friends a couple more years of experience, and with the right guy, and you will definitely enjoy oral. As I said, it sounds nasty, but so did doing the wild thing sound nasty when you were a small child.
As far as your friend goes she is stressed out.You and your friends told her not to do oral because it was nasty...she did it anyways, and her BF told her she smelled like acid. Then you tell her to talk to her mother about getting a checkup. "Hey mom, I need to go to a doctor because I smell like acid down there"
Put yourself into her sneakers, how would you react?
Just give her time to get her head back together, and whatever you do, do not say "I told you so"
How experienced is her boyfriend with the womanly smells???
He might be ignorant and thus telling her a lot of ****.
Good luck.
2006-09-09 15:00:19 · answer #1 · answered by Matilda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to her and explain to her that you were just trying to help and that you didn't mean to offend her in any way. She probably thought you were trying to put her down or something and got mad. Just be truthful with her and be there for her - the odds are that she isn't going to tell her mom about it, but you should encourage her to talk to an adult and/or a doctor.
2006-09-09 21:46:47 · answer #2 · answered by Rawrrrr 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just apologize and tell her you weren't trying to offend her in any way, but trying to make sure she was alright in the health department. Then, get all your friends together and go kick the boyfriend's a ss for being such a douche bag!
2006-09-09 22:00:10 · answer #3 · answered by Nille 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for one thing you was onley trying to be a friend by telling her to go to the doctor.she is angry with herself not you. sometimes the tuth hurt. and right now she is angry. let her call you because she will realize that you were trying to help her. she will call and say she is sorry. keep in mine you didn't do anything wrong you was bening a good friend. she will come around. that was a good thing that you did by telling her to go to the doctor. i know you feel bad because she hung up on you but she will call you because she will realize that a friend is not a friend if she can't tell you whats right. hang in there she will call.
2006-09-09 22:17:45 · answer #4 · answered by DIANE C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aww, I hate arguing with my friends. The best thing to do is calmly explain to her the situation, and tell her she may have an infection. The best way to get through this is to talk to her and just listen but, dont get all over her business.
2006-09-09 21:47:55 · answer #5 · answered by kindaworried 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course she got mad at you. She's hurt, confused and probably feeling very betrayed by her boyfriend. Wisdom is needed here. Depending on your relationship with your mom, you might want to ask her advice.
2006-09-09 21:49:58 · answer #6 · answered by Bethany 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awwww dun feel bad, she probably realize u were only trying to help sooner or later. U did da rite thing and dat wuz all u could do so dun feel bad.
2006-09-09 21:47:22 · answer #7 · answered by lovemimixoxo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old is she?just tell her its alright, she should be aware of practicing safe sex.The more she open up her mnd to this matters the more she should enjoy doing sex in a safe way.
2006-09-09 21:47:52 · answer #8 · answered by scalpelmd 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call her back and ask her why she did that for and tell her that you were just trying to help.
2006-09-09 21:47:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what the boyfriend ment by "acid" is slang for a type of drug.
2006-09-09 21:46:49 · answer #10 · answered by Irish Eagle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋