I had sex 4 times with my boy friend the first 2 times we used condoms, but the first time, we saw it leaked or broke, as we found some white sticky stuff around my vagina... the 2 other times we used the withdraw methed, he didn't ejaculate in me, those 2 times he didn't use condoms, but I'm not sure if he could of had small orgasims and thinking nothing coming out... but something could of... I don't know if he did a little in me or not? I remember like a few hours after I noticed some pain as if I was ovulating, but lasted a bit longer (a few hours)... what could it be??? I know I should of stopped after the first scare, but I just wanted to be loved, and he made me feel that way...
2006-09-09 14:40:25 · 45 answers · asked by BeckyM 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I know I should know better by this age, but I tend to worry a lot!
2006-09-09 14:54:43 · update #1
You can get pregnant ANY time you have sex.
Even if he didn't ejaculate, sperm can still get inside you from the precum.
2006-09-09 14:41:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First take a big breath. Yes you could be pregnant. Even with the withdrawal method there is always a small amount of pre ejaculate that can contain sperm. The pain a few hours after sex was possibly ovulation but just could be normal muscle contractions after sex. Wait and see if you miss your period. Start taking care of yourself right away just in case. In the mean time try to relax.
2006-09-09 14:46:20 · answer #2 · answered by Love Birth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweety, girls get pregnant at 12 these days. You need to get on a pill. You can get plan b, and that will help to prevent pregnancy if you do have an accident.
Here's the deal with the withdrawl method. Even if he hasn't ejaculated in you, his other fluids that are released during sex contain sperm. That includes the fluid that cleanses the urethra during sex in preparation of ejaculation. And, anyone will tell you that it only takes one sperm to do the trick.
You need to take a pregnancy test just to be sure. Make arrangements to not put yourself at risk for things you don't want to happen. Then you need to make sure that you're having sex for the right reasons. Just because he's having sex with you doesn't mean he loves you. Go get a puppy, or a kitten or something. It will love you for you.
2006-09-09 14:53:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anytime you have sex you can get pregnant. The withdrawal method is not a method... all men ejaculate a little before the orgasm. You and your boyfriend need to be more careful and use condoms all the time or get on BC. And being 19 has nothing to do with it, once you have a period, you can get pregnant. If you are not aware of these rules you should not be having sex.
2006-09-09 14:44:03 · answer #4 · answered by ShanaJ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes you can get pregnant with the "withdraw method"...I used that wonderful method back in May, and now I'm 19 weeks pregnant tomorrow, but I am happily married... Use condoms!!!! or get on some type of birth control. And get to know someone before you have sex with someone, if you do it to be loved you'll be nowhere but alone and knocked up, be careful about who your partners are because there are so many diseases going around ...
2006-09-09 14:56:00 · answer #5 · answered by snsheley0415 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hope he makes you feel loved enough to raise his child, and i hope you can explain your reasoning to that child when it asks you where its father is.
you can get pregnant anytime you have sex. condoms, acording to usage are only 86% effective. the pill is 93%. The pull out meathod doesnt work at all. And you can get pregnant anytime during your cycle.
Sex is for making babies, not making yourself feel loved. Anyone who would risk the life of a child is not work having sex with in the first place, especially when you have to do it his way in oder to feel loved.
wait until you're late for your period and take a test, or you can wait until you're almost due and go insist on blood work from your doctor or a planned parenthood.
Sex is a complex act part of adult relationships, and its main purpose is to create babies. Unless youre playing the game with that in mind you really shouldnt be playing at all. Its harsh but its true, there are other lives at stake besides your own.
2006-09-09 14:53:55 · answer #6 · answered by amosunknown 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are going to be sexually active, you should educate yourself about the risk before you have sex, as after may be too late. You definitely can get pregnant at 19 and even if he didn't ejaculate inside you. Good luck and don't take anymore risky chances. always use a condom.
2006-09-09 15:29:43 · answer #7 · answered by kiko 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh god...i mean i know im worried about being pregnant but at least i still have a chance because i at least used a condom everytime we were being safe..you on the other hand,its a 50/50 chance...you might be lucky like my friend because she and her bf did the same thing...they wouldnt use protection but they used the withdraw method and she never once got pregnant and they were like this for like a year finally she got pregnant so yea..its a 50/50 chance...take a test only way to know for sure...and on your emotional issue,dont have sex if you just want to be"loved" if theres no real connection there why even say that?
2006-09-09 15:01:16 · answer #8 · answered by Pammie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Being 19 has nothing to do with it.
A boy does not even have to penetrate to get you pregnant. Just "poking inside but not all the way, his semen can and will ooze out. It can make it's way into your uterus and impregnate you.
You really need to have a long talk with someone perhaps Planned Parenthood and learn how to take care of yourself.
I'm concerned about you when I say this: Screwing around with guys is not being loved. It's being used. Any boy will "do it" with you if you drop your drawers for him. It's easy to say the words I love you and not mean it.
Please please talk with a responsible adult about this.
2006-09-09 14:51:57 · answer #9 · answered by moekittykitty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you can get pregnant at 19. I have two little girls and I'm only 19. But, that's different bc I got married right out of high school. Also, men produce a lubricant when they are aroused that contains semen. So, even if he pulled out before cumming, you still got some semen in you by not using protection.
2006-09-09 14:46:09 · answer #10 · answered by smittnwithkittns 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are having periods, a girl can get pregnant having sex, even if they are 10! Please be careful with using birth control if you aren't ready for having a baby. If you want to know if you are pregnant, if your period is late (or even the day it is due) take a pregnancy test that is sensitive enough to show positive or negative at that time (most are now).
2006-09-09 14:43:41 · answer #11 · answered by dreamcatweaver 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋