4 those of u who red "y cant everythin b normal??" you'll know wat i'm sayin. 4 thos of u who didn't, i just got out of a relationship and aftre 3 months, i'm ok. my ex had another gf in that time so i know i'm over him and he's over me. i began 2 like another guy and my ex found out and it seemed like he was jealous cuz he was askin me bout it and even though he shudn't be, i felt bad that he's just realizin i've finaly moved on and its different 4 him. i'm still kinda close with him cuz we're beginin 2 b friends agen but now he's acting weird cuz of this new guy i like. so i was trying to figure out what to do when yesterday he e-mailed me telling me that the only reason he asked out that other gf was he thought he'd get me jealous and wanna like him again cuz he still loves me but he knew that i got over him. he didn't ask me out again cuz he knew i wouldn't but now he's all upset and i'm shocked. he don't wanna b just friends but i do!! how do i live w/ wat he just told me?!?!?
2006-09-09 14:35:58 · 5 answers · asked by jgmice 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i don't want things to be awkward between us cuz i just wanna be his friend but i don't wanna hafta avoid him if he's gonna be weird about it!! and i NEVER thought he'd love me again in a million years!!!! should i talk to him or something??? WHAT AM I SUPPOSED TO DO????
2006-09-09 14:37:43 · update #1
and for all those morons who can't read, i abbreviate because i didn't have enough room for everything i wanted to say so live with it!!!
2006-09-09 14:45:11 · update #2
My suggesttion is to just give it time. That saying 'let it go and if it loves you, it will return one day'. Same concept with friendships. Any girl that I've had for a partner and turned out to be an ex, I continue to be close friends with. The ones that aren't friends... Well, thats by thier choosing. Give it time for him to let it sink in. Dont flirt with him. Dont lead him to believe whats not there. Be a friend to him It could work out and you'll be closer than ever before; if not, there's nothing you can do but let it go. That sucks, but thats the reality of it. Good luck.
2006-09-09 14:45:09 · answer #1 · answered by Zephyr 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
jgmice, he sounds like a big hujungo MORON! first, he apparantley broke your heart. then he used your friend to make you jealouse!Uh, snap into it!. You can't force him to be your friend, and if he doesn't want to be friends than your probably better off without him. Don't go back with him! Be careful! you don't want to get hurt. Like zephyr said, you'll have to give it time.
2006-09-10 14:36:56 · answer #2 · answered by yourstruley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
here's what i want you to do! STOP ABBREVIATING!!!! good lord, it's hard as heck to read when you abbreviate. Then, if he thought he was just gonna make you jealous, let him know, it didn't work, then get rid of him any way you can!
2006-09-09 21:41:17 · answer #3 · answered by david_e22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously, the way to live with it is to keep it yourself (I really, really mean that) and not step into the road without looking.
2006-09-09 21:41:35 · answer #4 · answered by monotol 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe because you cannot communicate in a normal manner. In English and not "gangsta".
2006-09-09 21:38:37 · answer #5 · answered by troythom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋