Well, Virgo is supposed to attract CAPRICORNS, not Scorpios.
Well, considering Saggatarius and Scorpio... ...
Sagittarius and Scorpio
If a Scorpio and a Sagittarius want to make a love match, they should be warned to slow down, take their time getting to know one another on a deep, significant level or else they run the risk of getting way ahead of themselves. This relationship could be over before either partner even realizes it's started if they're not careful! Their patience will be very richly rewarded. Sagittarius thrives on change, on the new and the exciting and on the power of positive thought. Scorpio just wants to get closer and strengthen emotional ties. Early in the relationship, Sagittarius could feel hemmed in by Scorpio's rapt attention and high expectations for love. If Scorpio can control their emotions, these two are in for satisfaction and excitement.
Both Scorpio and Sagittarius see each day as an adventure (or in Scorpio's case, a compelling mystery) and as an endless opportunity to explore, to probe, to learn. Shared escapades bring them closer. While Sagittarius may get fed up with Scorpio's stubbornness and inflexibility, Scorpio could be thinking their Sagittarius mate is just a little too hotheaded. They'll enjoy learning together, and travel could be very beneficial for this pair. Their relationship is always on the go!
Pluto and Mars rule Scorpio, and Mars and Sagittarius is ruled by Jupiter. Mars is the God of War, opening the door for Scorpio's determined, courageous character. Mars, when combined with Pluto, represents rebirth and renewal. Jupiter focuses on philosophy, higher learning, expansion, optimism, luck and travel. These planetary attributes -- of growth, expansion and masculine energy -- combine to create a sustainable relationship of mutual admiration.
Scorpio is a Water Sign, and Sagittarius is a Fire Sign. Sagittarius is the spontaneous partner, heading in the direction their whim leads them, while Scorpio's motives are more subdued, less easy to read. Even if they run into misunderstandings or misinterpretations of each other's motivations, crisis can be averted. If these love mates agree that their relationship is significant, their devotion and affection will see them through.
Scorpio is a Fixed Sign, and Sagittarius is a Mutable Sign. Both of these love mates can multitask like pros, keeping each other's interests at heart, juggling birthdays and special dates with family obligations, but it really takes Scorpio's follow-through to get anything finished in this pair. Sagittarius gets the urge to jump around from project to project, so Scorpio's stick-to-it-tivness comes in handy. Lucky for Scorp partners, Sagittarius notices all the work their mates put in -- and they definitely show their appreciation when they know it's needed. Scorpio can be stubborn, exacting and demanding, so this mate needs to give their Sagittarius love their personal space and time for their own interests. Scorpio leads Sagittarius' ideas fruition, even if Sagittarius has lost interest and moved on. So they're not all work and no play, Sagittarius comes through with their knack for flexibility, a positive quality that sometimes wins out over resolute determination.
What's the best thing about the Scorpio-Sagittarius relationship? The security and flexibility they can give one another. Once they open up to one another and to appreciate their different philosophies in love and in life, these two have potential for steamy relations, deep connections and heartfelt respect. As long as they communicate and celebrate their differences, theirs will be a passionate relationship.
2006-09-09 17:30:01
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answer #3
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answered by Echo Forest 6
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Virgo with Scorpio
You are both innately cautious and insightful souls who are not especially willing to wear your hearts on your sleeves. There is an instinctive understanding between you which could make this a deep and empathetic relationship. Earthy Virgo can help Scorpio to achieve greater objectivity about emotional issues, and watery Scorpio can help Virgo to achieve greater openness in expressing deeper feelings.
You also both value privacy, and both of you need to be respected as well as loved. Your interests are likely to overlap, since both of you love deep analysis and are fascinated by what makes people "tick".
Scorpio's intensity may sometimes make Virgo feel invaded, and Virgo's clarity may sometimes make Scorpio feel that passion is being rationalised away. Yet this potential irritant between you can also be one of the most important areas where you can expand each other's personalities.
Deep down, you are both serious, thoughtful people who are bored by superficiality, repelled by hypocrisy, and concerned with living your lives to the highest standard of which you are capable. As long as you can respect each other's vulnerability, you can get the most out of this rich combination.
You are a Virgo
That ubiquitous newspaper portrait of the tidy Virgo soul with a perfectly balanced bank account and an immaculate bathroom no doubt sends you into fits of cynical laughter. Virgos are generally sadly misinterpreted, and understandably you can get pretty irritated about it, especially if you're the sort of Virgo who is untidy, chaotic and not in the least concerned about whether you arrive at one minute before eight or one minute after.
Discrimination is a Virgo characteristic. So is subtlety of thinking. Black and white perceptions imply a simple universe, and to you the universe is rarely simple. It's more like a huge, boundless jigsaw puzzle, and it can drive you crazy if you're missing a piece or if there isn't a picture on the top of the box showing you how the puzzle should look when it's finished.
But perfectionism - something of which you are often accused - isn't the same as discrimination. To be a perfectionist you have to be idealistic, and Virgo is probably the most realistic sign of the zodiac. You harbour no impossible vision of a perfect utopian world, or even a perfect utopian bathroom. You know your strengths and weaknesses, and you don't indulge in either arrogance or false modesty. You use what comes to hand to create order in your world, and order is at the top of your list of priorities - whether it's order in the material environment, in the realm of ideas, or in mind and body.
Virgos are the great synthesisers of the zodiac. Both your problems and your gifts spring from this deep urge to bring things together, to connect knowledge and experience to form a comprehensible whole. With Mercury, god of intelligence and communication, ruling this sign, naturally you love acquiring knowledge, especially if it's useful. And "useful", like "order", is another important word for Virgo. If something can't be used, you'll discard it with a ruthlessness that can terrify more sentimental signs. Sometimes Virgos throw out romance because it isn't useful.
You're capable of being quite cynical, and you know perfectly well that one has to be clever to survive. If you're going to do something, you'll do it well, from both pride of craftsmanship and a good marketing sense. Idealistic perfection? Hardly. Yet despite this apparent toughness, the impulse to be of service runs strong in you.
Virgos need to feel needed and useful. There's not a lot of ambition in this sign, and your tendency to look for more and more pieces to complete the great jigsaw puzzle of life takes away any propensity for the kind of obsessiveness needed to claw your way ambitiously to the top of the heap. You'd make an excellent advisor or counsellor to those silly enough to have grabbed the throne and subjected themselves to all that trouble. Your work is the thing you let people know first about you, not your secret self. With Virgos, not all the goods are visible in the shop window.
You don't like showing your hand until you know where you stand. You're a student and observer of life rather than a gambler or an entrepreneur. With all that self-containment, naturally the emotional realm can be the trickiest piece of the puzzle. Emotions aren't orderly, and they make you feel vulnerable. All those rituals you love so much are a means of keeping the "dark forces" of your own powerful feelings at bay. Deep within you there's a huge reservoir of sensitivity, romanticism and imaginative vision. Show it? Never. Your apparent coolness and insistence on privacy are a way of protecting yourself against an intolerable sensitivity. All that emphasis on practical reality helps you escape the mystic in your own soul.
You can be detached and even brusque in manner, and no one will ever catch you offering your last pennies to a drunk on the street. More likely you'll deliver a stern lecture about self-help. But this is because you're too acutely, compassionately aware of the human flotsam of life.
Planning for the future can be an obsession with you, because your realism makes it hard for you to trust in life. Yet when you feel secure, you can be the kindest, most gentle and generous of souls, giving freely of your time and skills. You're a complex creature, with many masks and disguises. You've learned your lessons early. But then, it's only realistic.
The Scorpio partner
Enough has been written about Scorpio's famous passion to make further descriptions redundant. These descriptions aren't strictly accurate either. Scorpios do indeed possess passion in abundance. But the passion may not necessarily be expressed in the obvious way. Sexuality, for Scorpio, is a gateway, a means of reaching a different order of experience. It isn't just a physical release.
Sex and love are bound up with a longing for some kind of transformation which no ordinary relationship can provide. Call it what you like - a mystical experience, a taste of the depths, a surrender to something greater than oneself - it has more to do with the soul than with the body. The Scorpio partner has a capacity for enduring, indestructible loyalty and love. She's capable of acts of great self-sacrifice. There's a touch of fanaticism in her, and this can permeate her relationships as well as her spiritual and political attitudes.
Scorpios don't paddle in shallow pools. They dive into depths well over their heads. Sadly, that fanaticism, unleashed in a relationship, can sometimes breed extreme suspicion and absolute possessiveness. That is, if the Scorpio is in love. If she isn't, and the magic gateway into the upper (or lower) realms isn't available, you're liable to be confronted with real emotional ice.
The Scorpio partner's biggest problem is the need to be in control. This can show in some pretty unattractive ways. Like having too much pride to apologise when she's done something really stupid. Or displaying implacable resentment and "punishing" you (with silence and an atmosphere so thick and dark you can cut it with a knife) without telling you what you've done wrong. Or finding subtle ways to test you, because she doesn't really trust you. You'll rarely get to hear just how much you mean to a Scorpio partner, but you can bet that, the less you hear, the deeper her love.
On the other hand, Scorpios have little respect for someone who won't fight back. The Scorpio partner has to win, but don't hand victory to her on a plate. Not surprisingly, crises are endemic in Scorpio's relationships. That is, if you haven't got one of those repressed Scorpios where everything seethes inside but all you see is an occasional wisp of steam. If you've got one of those, beware. Send your Scorpio to a therapist to release the pressure. It won't be much fun if it blows up at you.
What's really rare and wonderful is that the Scorpio partner has an incredible capacity for understanding you. Since she misses very little, she knows a lot about your deepest motivations very quickly. If you don't like that sort of honesty in a relationship, choose another sign. But if love means something more to you than hanging about the disco chattering, Scorpios have a lot to offer. A relationship with a Scorpio promises nothing less than transformation.
Probing is Scorpio's favourite pastime. A suspicious Scorpio isn't above scanning the telephone numbers in your little black book while you're in the bath, or checking the receipts in your wallet. Some Scorpios even become professional detectives, or forensic pathologists. But whatever games are being played, for the Scorpio partner a relationship is alive and important every hour of every day, not something which can be placed on the shelf while she gets on with something else.
Some people think possessiveness is something vaguely pathological or ideologically "wrong", and we should all go around saying, "Whatever makes you happy makes me happy." The Scorpio partner is more likely to say, "If you're happy without me, you'll pay dearly for it." To Scorpio, possessiveness is as natural as breathing. Scorpio feelings are intense. They take a long time learning to trust, but then they don't let go easily. Some Scorpios harden their hearts because of fear of humiliation, and allow only superficial encounters into their life. But that's a Scorpio on the run.
No one experiences a relationship with a Scorpio without changing. Whether it endures or ends, you'll become more self-aware and look at life more deeply. Don't expect all sweetness and light. Some very wise people have said that life is made up of both light and dark, and only a fool believes it to be otherwise. And Scorpio is no fool.
The Scorpio woman
There are two keywords you should remember about the Scorpio woman. The first is "depth". She has a subtle and complex temperament, and you'll never get to know all her secrets. The second is "will". This woman won't bow her head to anyone or anything, unless it's temporarily necessary to achieve an end. No Scorpio is easy to understand or live with. But then, if you wanted something light and frothy, you'd be with someone else, wouldn't you?
The Scorpio woman can't accept things at face value. This can span a pretty broad range, from the woman who, when you say, "Good morning!", wonders exactly what you meant by it, to the woman who passionately needs to understand herself and the deeper motivations of the world around her. This woman expects something more than sentimental tokens. Love, to Scorpio, is a bond which touches to the soul, and she expects honesty of character. She has a lot of compassion, and she's probably more capable than any other sign of understanding and accepting human foibles and human darkness.
What she can't stand is a hypocrite and a sham. If you need masks and props, stay away, because her X-ray vision will see right through you. And she won't stop at seeing, either. There's a strong tendency in Scorpios to remake other people, and the Scorpio woman may try to transform you - with or without your consent, and especially if you've got a lot to hide.
She's capable of not only seeing but also sharing your pain, your dreams and your burdens. Her enormous strength of will and loyalty are unshakeable even when yours are flagging. But her expectations are high. She expects that you, like her, will realise that life is a boundless mystery to be plumbed and explored. If you prefer shallower pastimes, your only hope is to convince her of the justice of your right to be yourself.
Justice is a thing she understands. If she feels something is just, she's capable of sacrificing her own desires and opinions completely. If she thinks you're in the wrong and you don't apologise or change, she'll retaliate. You'll have to get used to her propensity for retaliation. It's a powerful gut-level emotional reaction to any situation where she feels she (or anyone else, for that matter) has been abused or wrongly treated.
Betrayal is the thing she fears and hates the most. If she feels betrayed, she's more likely to strike back than to turn the other cheek. It's good, basic, primitive stuff - an eye for an eye, and all that. Never maliciously or with gratuitous cruelty. Just enough to teach you a lesson. Does it sound a little hair-raising? Well, it can be. The Scorpio woman's feelings run deep and intense, and she won't tolerate having them taken lightly. And she has a long memory for both good and ill. Help her, show her encouragement, and she'll always remember it. Betray her and she'll never trust you again.
The Scorpio woman needs an arena where she can express her fighting spirit. She's not really a domestic creature, unless domesticity means periodically setting the house on fire. She needs to engage in battle against what she feels to be the darkness and destructiveness in the world and in life. She may often be seen championing the weak or the abused, in political, medical, legal or psychological spheres. Because she thrives on crises, she needs the right setting to slake her thirst for transformation and change. Otherwise, guess who bears the brunt of it.
Scorpio women don't like things to be placid for too long, and they mistrust complacent contentment. She's always looking for the worm in the apple, and if things are quiet for too long, she'll begin to suspect something's going on underneath. Then she'll start a quarrel or provoke a scene in order to find the worm. When it turns out that there isn't any worm, she's not in the least upset. She accomplished what she was really after: a change in the relationship, a shift in your (and her own) attitudes, a new level of insight. She'd rather have you furious than uninvolved.
No other sign can ever subdue or remodel the Scorpio woman. Just decide whether or not this is someone you can respect, understand, love and believe in. Oh, and work out whether or not you're prepared for your secret soul to be seen. If so, then don't trail your toes in the water. Jump in, and learn to enjoy the depths. One thing it will never be: shallow or boring.
2006-09-09 22:45:31
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answer #10
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answered by Anonymous
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