I want to have another baby but my man want to wait 1 more year to have a baby, but i can't wait that long. I try everything to make him change his mind but nothing works. I dont want to set him up that not my stlye. What should i do?
2006-09-09 14:33:10 · 8 answers · asked by sunsetlove718 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I have a idea bring back all those good memories of you being pregnant talk about when you was pregnant show him pictures and when you go to stores take him to the baby side when I wanted to have another baby I kept bringing up memories and showed him baby stuff especially showing him our son's baby pictures the more my husband got around baby things and clothes and saw pictures I got pregnant with our daughter I love babies they are so cute!! good luck!!!
2006-09-09 16:39:20 · answer #1 · answered by blondeqtwitanicebooty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a discussion with him. Lay out your reasons for wanting to have a baby at this time. What you think the benefits of the situation are. Then ask him why he feels you should wait. Truly listen to what his oposition is. When you both have your feelings on the table then you can make a joint decision on when to have the baby. . . maybe there will be a compromise? Maybe you will agree with him once you know why he feels that way. communication is best.
2006-09-09 14:37:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you married? Not trying to be rude, but why dont you wait until you Marries You before you start having all these kids. Boyfriend today--'baby daddy' tomorrow. Tell him to marry you.
Peace
2006-09-09 14:37:51 · answer #3 · answered by Plus-Sized &Proud 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him all the reasons you feel like its a good idea. Then have him tell you all the reasons he thinks its not a good idea. You may have to come to a compromise on it. You are a lot more fertile after having one, which i'm sure you probablyknow. Maybe you could start trying in 6 months? If not, use a condom and poke a hole in it... lol.
2006-09-09 14:36:40 · answer #4 · answered by sour_apple 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
why can't you wait? i mean, what is the reason you gave him? i always think that the woman should choose the timing. it's your body, your age, your work situation...you're right to not set him up, that's bad, but is he always unwilling to see things your way?
2006-09-09 14:37:27 · answer #5 · answered by steelypen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
iam a guy with kids that i love, u really need to respect his decision also, iam sure you already no that its a serious thing and both people need to be in agreement, if you do it with out him nothing it at first could only lead to resentment.
2006-09-09 14:37:42 · answer #6 · answered by waysexy26 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should wait until you both AGREE on when. It's not right unless it is what you both want.
2006-09-09 14:36:41 · answer #7 · answered by from HJ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he your husband
2006-09-09 14:37:22 · answer #8 · answered by Queen A 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋