mmy doctor said my 4 month old daughter is doing stuff that a 7 month old odes and my friend who i have known all my life wont talk to me any ore because her baby is developing slowly and she is mad her baby aint developing like mine. how do i get her to talk to me and start being my friend again?
2006-09-09 14:21:49 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Newborn & Baby
She should not be mad at you. All babies develop differently. My baby is 3.5 months old and he is also doing stuff older babies do. He is also bigger than most babies his age.
Try to dig up articles that show her that there is nothing wrong with her baby and that all babies are different, even twins.
Im happy that you baby is so healthy, may God bless you and your daughter.
2006-09-09 16:36:44 · answer #1 · answered by lilly_mom_pr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-30 12:52:29 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not your problem. Your friend probably just needs time to adjust to her baby's growth. All babies develop at different speeds. Your baby might slow down in a few months and her baby might catch up. Just set back and be her friend. She needs your support right now. It's hard seeing other children developing and doing things when your child is behind.
2006-09-09 14:30:42 · answer #3 · answered by Happy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever considered, it's not the issue of the babies developmental speed but the annoyance of the bragging over something , that is quite frankly, no big deal. Millions of babies develop faster than others. It doesn't make them smarter or better, only means that everyone has different genes and develops differently.
Try talking to your friend instead of us. If her friendship is truly important you will work on it.
2006-09-09 14:30:17 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not all babies develope at the same rate. She is being childish. Is her baby about the same age? I would not worry about her. What kind of friend gets mad at something like that. I lost a baby girl last month at 21 weeks, but have several friends that are pregnant right now. That would be like me being mad at them for not having lost their babies. She needs to grow up!
2006-09-09 14:26:27 · answer #5 · answered by Ryan's mom 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
New mothers always brag about what their child can do. You are excited about what your baby can do so you tell everyone. Maybe this other mother is sensitive about her baby and feels like you are rubbing it in her face. You can keep the stuff about the babies to a minimum so she doesn't feel bad or just wait until they grow a little.
2006-09-09 14:30:07 · answer #6 · answered by blueyes2001 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that its really sad for her to make this a reason for your
friend to be on the rocks. Its great that your daughter is
developing well and your friend's baby may be developing at a
slower rate but it doesn't mean he/she will end up dumb.
2006-09-09 14:29:29 · answer #7 · answered by retrodragonfly 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if she gets mad over stupid things like that then she is probably not a good friend.with friends like those who needs enemies? but anyway, try to talk to her and tell her you are sorry but it is not your fault. they are just different. that really don't mean anything,that is just how some children are. it might even be the things that you are doing with your child. she might be doing different things or doing things differently. they are two different babies. if she won't talk to you then write her a letter. tell her how it makes you feel that she is acting like this. if that does not work then she is not your friend. maybe the baby is not the reason she is mad!!!!!
2006-09-09 14:41:15 · answer #8 · answered by burtonstanley 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should be more senstivie. There is nothing worse than mothers who brag all the time. If you really see her as a friend, you should stop talking about your doctors saying how advanced your baby is.
2006-09-09 15:17:06 · answer #9 · answered by VANESSMC99 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try not talking about all your childs milestones unless she asks her brings it up. It's easy to brag and to some people it hurts their feelings or they think you are rubbing it in. Find things to praise her child about, make very snappy and nice comments about her baby and don't only talk about your baby.
2006-09-09 18:03:02 · answer #10 · answered by tigreria 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋