2006-09-09 14:12:17 · 15 answers · asked by SPEAK UP WAKE UP 2 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Other - Entertainment
I like lap dances. My best guy friend and I went last year on our birthdays with our spouses to a strip club. His wife hated it at first, but we managed to find a stripper that turned my buddy into a six foot tall slip and slide, and coated him in chocolate. After getting to wack him on the butt with a riding crop and having teeny little strippers poke him with pitch forks (our birthdays are in October), we shared a great laugh. Now, out of that, who do YOU think got exploited? She made eighty bucks in five minutes. She took a shower and finished her set. Meanwhile, my buddy was poked, whipped, doused in water, coated in chocolate, and humiliated in public.
I'm totally for it, and I will tell you why. Sex makes big money. These girls rake in cash hand over fist, just for shaking their butts for two seconds. These guys that go to these clubs get the attention of a girl, pay for her time, and go home broke. Yeah, it may be a little degrading for her. But I can guarantee she's not going to have sex with those guys. That guy at the club is a loser. She's going to go home, shower, and sleep. Then she'll go to school, or take care of her family if she has one. But that guy will wake up alone, shake off his hangover, and go to work to make more money. How exactly is she losing out? Who is really exploiting who?
2006-09-09 14:25:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's degrading in and of itself. The way some people treat exotic dancers is what is degrading. Sweatshop workers and starving people are ones who get exploited all over the world, these women are making the decision to dance and get paid well for doing it. It's unfair that there are plenty of men who are exotic dancers, doing the same thing as a female dancer (ie: genitals in someone's face) but who don't get the same social stigma thrown upon them as female dancers do. The women who dance are using their bodies it to make money just like models,actresses, and singers do. How many have jacked-off to famous women who portray pure sex in magazines and videos?
2006-09-09 21:47:42 · answer #2 · answered by Rebecca 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, i think it is demeaning to women- but the people being exploited are the men. The men are being degraded worse than the women, at least the women are controlling and profiting off of the situation, whereas the guys are nothing but marks.
2006-09-09 21:20:16 · answer #3 · answered by niwriffej 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the lap owner is married, then the family at home is exploited because they are the only ones paying without their knowledge. Otherwise, just try to keep those bodily fluids to themselves and I presume they'll be just fine.
2006-09-09 21:46:44 · answer #4 · answered by ann a 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I disagree that it's exploitment of women. They choose to do the job...not forced. We only want to help the men, and give them a good time. It's sort of like therapy for men....like if they just got dumped, or if they're just sad about something. We help them take their minds off of whatever it is that's bothering them
2006-09-09 21:17:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For...I'm a female and I don't necessarily view strip clubs as any more degrading than bikini clad women selling cigarettes, alcohol, cars, etc. There are many intelligent women that employ themselves in the sex industry cause they can make lots of money throughout their career and not all of them engage in risky sexual behavior. Plus, I enjoy male strip shows with my friends and boy do we have a great time!! Those men and women who are in the biz make $$$!
2006-09-09 21:24:01 · answer #6 · answered by Ser021976 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Gee, it seems to me that the man is the one being exploited. He is the one that is getting ripped off. Those women make ridiculous amounts of money.
2006-09-09 21:21:37 · answer #7 · answered by Mai Tai Mike 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that it is degrading to women that do this to random people or anyone else really unless you are married because when you are married, that is the type of connection you need in order for it not to be degrading. Marriage should be caring and loving and not just for the sex or lust...
2006-09-09 21:17:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think strip clubs are degrading and empowering...but more degrading. These women are getting paid, BUT they're being viewed as a piece of meat. This is one of the reasons why women are viewed as objects.
2006-09-09 21:14:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
it's women exploiting themselves.it is thier own fault,you should have more respect for yourself
2006-09-09 21:15:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋