Do I say the right things? requires a bit of reading?

Question

Now, sometimes I feel when I am answering questions of love and commitment I dont say the right things, You see I don't see eye to eye with the men who treat their girls with love and think they are God's gift to women, I think guys should treat their loved ones just like they did when they first fell for her, and I believe that they should fall for her each day as their lives continue together, Now am I too opionated or should I keep telling them, not how they can be a good husband or lover but the fundamentals of how they can strive to be the gentlemen (I know that I fail sometimes but I try) and is it bad to think so much about this? since I am only 19?

I meant I dont see eye to eye with the men who treat women without the right love

Answer 1

I agree with you. Rock on. Guys should always be gentlemen and treat all women, but especially their own, with respect and admiration. To love is not only to take, but to give. Someone should not do things because it makes them feel good, but because it makes their love feel good. This will keep a relationship strong, and filled with love.
And just because you're 19 doesn't mean that you shouldn't think about that stuff. Heck, I'm 16 and I've thought about it for three years.

Answer 2

i think in any relationship there should be respect and trust, there are far to many men and women who are in relationships and sabotage it by lack of trust.

You sound like your on the right track. your only young so don't go messing your head up worrying about other peoples relationships. And don't worry about falling sometimes that makes you; you.

Answer 3

Sounds like you are giving great advice! Some people don't want to stop and consider the feelings or values of someone else, only what they want! I wouldn't worry about them, believe me they worry about themselves enough!

Answer 4

sure