ok so me and my friend were on the fone and i asked if she wanted to call this guy...so we decided to call him...when i called him i forgot to blok my number so then he got it...about 2 hours later he texted me saying is this (my name) and i was like maybe why...? he's like i just need to ask her something... i was like ok ask me and ill answer u never know i might be (my name) so he asked if i was going out with someone and i said yes i was and he' slike oh well i was just wondering cuz i wanted to go out w/ u and i said sry but i have a bf (i dont this is y im asking) he didn't respond until 2 hours lates and he says ok so u want to go to a movie so i was like i dont want to cheat on my boyfriend..so he asks again and i said im not going to cheat...then he asked me all this info on my bf and stuff and he' slike u no what i like about u and he's like u have beautiful eyes and a beautiful smile and ur beautiful...i replied thanks u and it was very sweet and he said it came from his...
2006-09-09 13:42:45 · 10 answers · asked by alai235 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
heart and now i feel really bad because i lied to him and i know he really really likes me ive known that but i still feel bad....if u were in my situation wood u feel guilty and if u got any advice i definitely need it
btw i dont like him...like ive thought about it cuz he told me he liked me last year and i honestly thought about it and the answer is no.
2006-09-09 13:43:44 · update #1
Well, i dont think you should feel quilty that was a good way to turn him down. It didnt hurt his self-esteem because he thinks you are with someone else.
Plus never date someone just because you feel sorry for them it always ends bad. Plus this way since your not intrested in him it gave you an easy excuse to use. Believe me girls use this excuse a lot and it works.
2006-09-09 13:48:40 · answer #1 · answered by mellow_26241 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should Be completely real with people (especially in this situation ) all the time. If you really like him also and dont just feel bad for him. Just come clean even though it is very hard to do. If not just try avoiding him and hell get the hint. If he doesnt want to go out with you after you tell him, then its his loss. GL
2006-09-09 20:50:07 · answer #2 · answered by cul8rhote 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tel him i know you like me but i allready have a bf and say there is a lot of girls in the wolrd
that would like you but not me im sorry ,and maybe he heird a pridec to get the info on you and you r bf and he might be a stalker [the guy that you talked abou t or worse ] so put him down easy
2006-09-09 20:51:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats wut happened 2 me once..kind of...one of my best guy friends called me and asked me out...i said no cuz he was my buddy...he sounded really sad and i felt really bad...it kinda sucked cuz 2 days later i had a swimming party and he was there..i was trying 2 avoid him just so i wouldnt lead him on but yeah..later, i ended up liking him and i told him but he didnt believe me (no1 takes me seriousley cuz im always messing around) so yeah, i regretted it
2006-09-09 21:23:54 · answer #4 · answered by Blue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow up and stop messing around with people's feelings.
2006-09-09 20:45:19 · answer #5 · answered by a_soft_world 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think sometimes it is better to tell a little white lie and save his feelings. Its okay. I think it is better than just telling him you don't like him.
2006-09-09 20:47:34 · answer #6 · answered by redglass23 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on and think about something else!
2006-09-09 20:50:37 · answer #7 · answered by Pey 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So why did you call him then ?
2006-09-09 20:46:53 · answer #8 · answered by nealy pooh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him alone
2006-09-11 20:08:04 · answer #9 · answered by kat_cat_dog 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmph..wow..your immature AND stupid..\
must suck to be you....
2006-09-09 22:09:22 · answer #10 · answered by b_182punkgurl13 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋